I have known nothing but Female Led Relationships because I've always let my partners take the lead. Some of them really enjoyed it. Others found it extremely frustrating. I don't what to say. Being a sub is just being who I am.
Being dominant and taking control isn’t as easy as some people may think @FrenchSub it took my Wife a few years untill she was comfortable. Those were long and difficult years but it was well worth it. Even after a few years she still has days that she doesn’t want to be the one in charge. Good Luck on being a sub for a long long time.
You can help your wife by obeing and when she don't know you can asks question with only an answer YES or NO, don't give multiple choice and choice you'd like to have. When like mine she is not too much into it and dare not give order just thinks about a diologue with her, what she could asks and demands then do it. Feel free to ask advice.