My wife has been pushing for a stronger Mistress/slave dynamic. It is incredibly hot. My beta side gets turned on, but my alpha side does not want it. I obey her nevertheless. This is what my queen wants: 1. Me in chastity again, and she says I will not ever fuck her or masturbate ever again. We will see if she means this. 2. I will sleep on the floor of the loft closet (a big closet we have). 3. I will do all the housework for her. I should be living to serve her. At all times I should be out to please her. 4. She is taking away things I like: my sport, beer, screentime. I must ask permission. 5. She installed an app to track my location. 6. She will be taking over finances. I will not have access to spend money. 7. She will discipline me in the evenings with her paddle, to ensure compliance. That means I probably get racked at bedtime. Though I like being dominated, rackings for me are difficult to endure. But that is why she likes them. The thing that is most hot about this is it comes completely from her. All top from the top. I am astounded. Yes, we have fantacized about making me a more total slave during sex, which was meant to be fantasy, but she says she wants to make it real. She wants to think of me more like a slave and less like a husband so that she will treat me more like one continually, so ramping up the dynamic helps. She wants a true slave, not a kinda sorta partway one. It's like I don't want to be a slave to this level, but I do. Perhaps I need my will broken and maybe I needed it broken long ago.
OK, this morning she was speaking in different terms, saying she might let me out for sex to please her at times, if I have been good. She said that when I am good and do lots of tasks and chores to please her, she gets turned on, so there is a possibility of release. But, yeah, a definite reduction in overnight intimacy because of the closet thing, but a big increase in all-day eroticism. It's like she is making all my existence hers. All the money I earn? Hers. All my free time? Hers. My sleep? Hers (or how she wants it). I see what she is getting at — not a moment when I am not serving or else suffering.
Sounds good! This is how it went for me and my madam, started off with a switch Bdsm relationship, and am now in a total FLR/ cuckold one. And are all the happier for it!
Total surrender for those that can take it is incredible, it does not necessarilly mean no sex unless you are told this? Often I would be used for oral sex or even penetrative sex but not allowed to cum, usualy used to sleep on the floor at her feet as she likes to spread out on the bed, when in the mood protocols can be put in place where when you detect her beggining to wake you perform oral sex so she can start the day with an orgasm. You sound like you wish this lifestyle so go for it IMO, only be careful what you wish for as 24/7 is much harder than a couple of hours in a club or bedroom kink. Best wishes. john
some years back there was a blog on here called' the real feeling of chastity' i'm thinking your lovely wife may enjoy it. Go with the flow you're a lucky man
Yeah, she is, but there is much in it she likes, too. Basically, it hot to see a woman explore her dominant side further.