Retirement ceremony?

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    I have shared on here that for medical reasons my wife’s libido is down to nothing, I have started down the oth towards permanent chastity, having been locked since October 1st (with a few days unlocked for air travel - I won’t unlock for it again). In a little over a week we are at a significant date - the end of the year and of the decade. I want to have New Year’s eve be the date of my official “retirement.”

    I have seen there are many other guys here who are retired from using their cocks. I am looking for ideas to mark the occasion and make it official. Did you and your wife have a brief ceremony, a dinner out, a teasing session, or any thing else that marked you officially retiring? Maybe just a certificate printed and signed?

    If you have suggestions for something that I could do or ask my wife to do please share them.

    Thanks
     
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    I don't have any ideas at the moment. But it is a very good question. I am overdue for a retirement party as well, and the new years seems like a great time to do it.

    I would like to add this. Anyone who wants to join the celebration, on new years eve, please come back to this post and let smlocked know you had a drink to salute his official retirement party.

    For an encore, toss one back for me as well, as I will be using the occasion to officially toss the keys, as it were, because the only thing this member will see, is the back side of stainless steel bars for life without parole.

    I would say one drink for both, but that would only be half as much fun.

    Don't forget to stop back by here and congratulate us, or giving us your condolences, whichever seems appropriate to you.

    Now think...think...think. Let's come up with some ideas.

    smloicked, I salute you. The flagpole will remain at half staff. Lol.
     
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    My keyholder is a sadist, so we recently branded the head of my cock as a reminder that it's not for use anymore. The final retirement ritual/ceremony will be a 2nd circumcision, which will involve branding it all the way around my original circumcision scar...bit by bit in one sitting. This is to mimic many of the rights of passage to manhood, but in reverse, to permanent non use of it as a sex organ. That's the plan anyhow. Will have to be unlocked for a bit while that heals. The head branding is taking a while due to being caged, but is healing well otherwise.
     
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    Wow. Ouch! Very interesting. However, I think I will pass on that one. Quite a commitment.
     
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    My thoughts exactly as I cringe just thinking about it.

    But to each his/her own so may they enjoy it.
     
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    I guess I'm semi-retired...The only time my penis is used, is when my Wife(KH) want to use it. This year, she has allowed me to cum 11 times. Once a month. It is not used for PIV anymore. She still likes the feel and look of a hard cock and enjoys giving my oral pleasure(Once in a while).
     
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    I have shared on here that for medical reasons my wife’s libido is down to nothing, I have started down the oth towards permanent chastity.
    Age and situation wise, we are in the same boat . My guess is I have about 5 years of work left before I can fully retire. Currently She is very much the Top and myself the bottom. I can't help but think the contrast between Top and bottom will be turned up once I fully retire. Once retired I have fantasies of me being locked in some form of functional bondage (perhaps a locking body harness?) that becomes my "normal" attire when I am at home.
    As a sign of devotion, perhaps you could don a wrist bracelet for the occasion? One that is subtle enough to be worn in public but is impossible to remove. Something like this --> https://www.axsmar.eu/
     
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    the idea of a permanent locking bracelet is fantastic. I am looking for one now. Thanks!
     
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    Yeah...we are longtime BDSM people, and we love rituals. It is pretty extreme, but it's a big leap to permanent dick retirement too!!
     
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    Yes. It is a big leap to closed down the amusement park for good. But it has been out of service for quite some time. No one has ridden the roller coaster in so long, either together or by themselves, that the ball bearings in the wheels have rusted because of not getting greased.

    Since the tunnel of love has been shut down for so long, and is unrepairable, it just seems appropriate to just close the park. I hate waiting in a long queue that haven't moved anyway, and I don't have any fastpass tickets like at Disneyland where you can skip the line, for a quick ride.

    So the stainless steel gate has been closed and locked for some time now, and will stay that way permanently. All rides have been closed for many years, so locking the gates two and a half years ago just seemed the right thing to do.

    Sorry for the metaphor. Just trying to be discreet....and funny.
     
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    Hi there!

    How about a collar?

    Or a tattoo?

    Kindest regards

    J.
     
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    Kind of interesting.....

    You could also leave it in the cage but both you and her take turns putting needles through it.
    Kind of like you are both "slaying the dragon" so to speak.

    That is if your device allows access between the bars.

    That way it could stay in the cage permanently as it won't be all torn up and need time to heal.
     
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    The steel chastity cage is our collar. No tattoo's. We pondered something, but went with the simple brand. It's just a small line of 3 dots, which has meaning to us. Tattoo's are more difficult in a poly relationship because you don't want something that's a statement from one person to be an insult or threat to the other. The branding will leave a small scar, but nothing stating ownership, which works with the relationship and keeping the balance.
     
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    Absolutely brilliant!!!!!
     
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    Or you could leave yours permanently locked and she could play with a different maybe better one when she wants to. That could be great fun for both of you if you are into that kind of thing.
     
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    No...We'll pass...;)
     
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    @smlocked, I toasted you to my Keyholder Wife! Happy Retirement!

    Let us know how your ceremony went.
     
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    No ceremony. Trouble with being at relatives’ homes for holidays. Ordered a metal multi-tool style bracelet that is to be my retirement “gold watch”.
     
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