What nick names/ serious names do you use?

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    So me and my gf are pretty new to this lifestyle and we had the conversation last night about names people use for each other when they are in "role". Traditionally we have used made up words as our nicknames for each other but in these roles it tends to be a little "cute". On the other hand, calling her my mistress, miss, goddess etc does not sit well with her. We looked at Boss but that was top ... maybe neutral maybe masculine to me. Whatever the reason the name boss doesn't sit well with me. I was wondering

    1. Do you use different names to help get you into the role?
    2. What names do you use? (hopefully I can find one suitable)
    3. Are different names even necessary or is a simple yes .... (insert name here) enough?

    Looking forwards to hearing some answers :)
     
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    Honey Bun, Baby Doll, and "Yes Ma'am".
     
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    We have all kinds of specific names:

    My wife is referred to as Mommy, Mistress, and Queen.

    I am referred to as Lil' Girl, Cinderella, Princess, and Potty Pants. Of course the word bitch is used a lot.

    My cock is referred to as my wee wee.

    My cum is referred to as sissies, goo goos, preemies, and cummies.

    My ass is always referred to as Pussy.
     
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    love it !! I don't know if my miss would go for any of these but awesome to see different peoples names! it also gives a bit of an insight into where you and your partner in crime are at and what level of commitment you have to this lifestyle.

    Thanks for the responses :)
     
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    I use alternate names more than he does. When he does refer to Me by something other than My name, he uses 'Gorgeous'. I'm not big on the Mistress/Goddess stuff either, personally, but that's because they just aren't quite masculine enough, I think. I like the neutrality, most times.

    I've called him pet since our early days. I've always thrown in other names that make him feel cutesy, small, or soft... often including the terms 'sweet' or 'little' in front. Depends on My mood what those are at the time.

    I'd say My use of them is 'necessary', if that can also mean natural. It's certainly a part of our verbal dynamic. But yes, I happen to enjoy when he uses My name after a solid 'yes', best.
     
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    On I should add she does not have too much issue finding names for me... her fav right now is one that implies i will take her last name when/if we get married.... She ad no problems with boss (i think she thought it was quite empowering) I suppose I should probably comply and use it but I want something else.... She doesn't like gorgeous either but that is because my dad uses that name and she thinks it's weird lol.

    hmmm maybe this is the way to go though, she is also very happy with the idea of being called by her name. Sometimes the simplest answer is the best I suppose :rolleyes:.
     
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    My wife calls me “cagey” most of the times and sometime “clikidi” since my cage does noises when the lock hits the cage. I call her “honey “ most of the time but does call her “my queen”.
     
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    It's totally personal preference.

    When I make a request, his answer is Yes Miss.

    But we call each other Honey, sweetie, love etc.
     
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    We don't use any special names for each other, but my naughty bits are often referred to as my TTLP - teeny, tiny, little, penis. Too small to use other names.
     
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    Now this is a fun thread!

    Most of the time, I call him "boy," since it belittles him but doesn't dismiss his masculinity (we're not really into feminization). In more vanilla contexts, I sometimes call him "love."

    My favorite thing to be called by him is definitely "Domina," as not only does it feel powerful and elegant, but it's a nice little nod to the Latin classes we enjoyed together when we were younger. Sometimes I'll be in the mood to take "Mistress" or just my name instead. We occasionally do light goddess-themed RP but typically don't use "Goddess" as a title.

    I hope we've given you an idea or two!
     
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    Depending on Her Mood I am referred to as bitch, pain slut or ass whore.
     
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    My mistress and I have never really nailed down names that we really have set for each other. When describing my wife I like to use mistress here at the mansion because it's more technically her title in our relationship. Sometimes I'll refer to her as Miss when she's giving me orders and tasks, that's her most preferred nick name if I'm going to call her anything. Sometimes I'm the best of the moment I'll address her as mistress but that's usually only in the bedroom. On the other hand she refers to me as slut, slut puppy and bitch. Sometimes she calls me "little penis" but that's not really a nickname she uses often.

    We still pretty much just use the nicknames and cute names we've always called each other from the beginning of our relationship. In my opinion the bed thing is for her to come up with the name she'd like you to address her as. That way it's something she picks and likes.
     
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    Oh yeah she also likes me to address her as Miss sexy too :)
     
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    My wife is Miss D and I am Cage Boy. This is for when we are either sexting or when we are having sex or being intimate. My wife hates Mistress as she does not see herself as one.....
     
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    My wife calls me cage boy to! Sometimes she'll call me her little bird to
     
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    When he's under discipline or in chastity, he has to call me "Miss Cecelia" or "Ma'am". If there are other people around who know about us, he still has to address me like that and the ladies as "Miss X" (there's one married lady who requires "Mrs. X"). He addresses the few males who know about us like the ladies tell him to.

    Discretion is important to him. In fact, I've gotten some pretty unpleasant surprises with the safeword when I've violated discretion, but that was when I was new to it and didn't know. Because discretion is important to him, he doesn't have to call me "Miss Cecilia" or "Ma'am" if we're around people who don't know about us.
     
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    see? giggling:D
     
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    Well from the beginning she named me sissy Stephie, sometimes she calls me Sissy Gurl Stephie. Each relationship is different, ours focused on Femdom and her wanting me feminized, turned into her sissy submissive chastity was just part of it. We recently married , I almost always refer to her as Mistress!
     
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    Thanks for asking the question but I’ll still have to figure out a name for him to call me. I don’t like the mistress reference so I’ll wait and see. The only thing I request now is that when we are out with others that he refer to me as “My Love” when he talks directly to me or brings me things.

    I had asked for input on names for him and since he took so long I gave him the nickname DL (dick lover). Shortly after that he decided to come up with names to which I don’t like any of them. So DL it remains for now. Lol
     
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    For her it's been Mistress. I use it pretty much exclusively when we are alone. When out just mainly use "yes dear". For me she calls me all kinds of names as she knows how aroused I am by humiliation. Probably most commonly sissy bitch. My favorite though is when she refers to me as Jennifer. When we were first starting in chastity I won the right to ask for anything I wanted. She was sure I was going to ask for sex, but instead I asked her if I could have a sissy name. We agreed on Jennifer and she just melts me when she uses it.
     
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    My penis is a 'clitty', my anus a 'boycunt'. Sadly, both are quite accurate. I am a cocksucking bottom and a cuck-in-waiting.
     
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    Mmm my wife hates most of the names like mistress and such. Her name or her initial most of the time. Her names for me bitch, sissy bitch, faggot sissy bitch, cocksucker, or cum vacuum. My penis is her name for my penis but when with her i use my clit, my ass is my pussy, and my mouth is called cum dump.
     
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    I'm Penney, she is Mistress.
     
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    I get called Miss Paulie (soon to be tattooed on my bum) or bitch. I call Mistress by her normal name unless in a disciplinary situation where it is Mistress.
     
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    I'd love to see your new tat when you get it. I just checked out your other one. Very nice!
     
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