So, you're on your own or wifey/GF isn't really interested in your 'thing'! So how do you engage another woman to feed your kink? You'll pose as a Domme Wife/GF/KH and offer another woman the opportunity to bitch treat your sub hub/bf. Ring any bells? It's never safe to assume that a real woman on here doesn't have skills other than being able to twitch your cock! We are not stupid, if fact we are generally highly intelligent educated women. So when you are executing your little ruse, you don't realise how much can be deduced just from the way messages and text and other subtle inflections give you away. I have the benefit of a husband who runs my Security Company (yes its mine), but he has a Wife that also has skills (workplace not bedroom/dungeon). If you really need a little wank time, just be honest and ask politely, you never know, we may throw you a bone. Stop taking the piss! Love and respect to real caged men who know how to respect women. Thanks guys xx
And not a grievance really, an observation of some of the tactics our less genuine friends here adopt to engage with real dominant women. Always a risk on these sites I know, but unnecessary. I would much prefer a sub to be honest and say they are flying solo.
I had a little grin at security company... there’s nothing like taking your work home with you Jane X
I know what Mandy is talking about. Even here where one does not expect to find men who are unrespectful to women, they appear. They assume many forms to get a dominant woman to engage to what they, in their wicked heads, are dreaming of. The little clues are handy, they leave readable traces. They can't fool us.
I have my doubts about many. Some the more hardcore they act, the more I doubt. It is something that isn’t really new on the internet, usually less so here though since there really is no reason. But as with anywhere online I’m sure there are a few dudes with ladies aliases here.
Yeah sometimes it seems like being the female would be much more fun, lol. But we are the gender we are and we are wired the way we are wired. I'm an occasionally caged male sub-hub and that's my lot in life, and yes it makes me happy. I do wish society made it more acceptable so I could be more open though.
Hmm, being more open! The double edged (no pun) sword. The accelerated excitement of someone else knowing that you are a chastised male or a cuckold, versus the prospect of losing family and friends! Society is what society is, often hypocritical, usually ambiguous, so very contradictory, extremely judging, but very occasionally sweetly surprising. We have have a very small group of friends who know about our lifestyle and sometimes contribute. But never assume that all will be so accepting. Slightly off (my own) topic, I know, but its often the frustration of being covert that drives less genuine behaviours. I predict that a world of total openess and acceptance would manifest as confidence that you really did know for sure the female on the other end of site posts and chats, really was female.
In that world of pure openness and crystal clear exposure, many will be so bored that another way of covert would be achieved, I just can't believe that in anytime as the human race is (and will not evolve from that) that can ever be exist something like the Utopia land, a place where its citizens will possess highly desirable or nearly perfect qualities.