Has the extremely special Female in your life or you, as the Matriarch, shared or set any goals for your relationship coming into 2023?
Domina has said i will do more oral for Her and another one of my Superiors has me getting good at deep-throating a dildo. asa
Yes 1. Get in better shape for myself and my love. 2. Committing to permanent chastity to her. 3. To get my new BadAass workshop cage to be locked forever until she desires to use me.
Nothing set in stone but we are going to try for regular pegging. Start being more submissive in public settings and situations.
My wonderful Queen has committed to being more strict for ‘23, cutting my orgasms down drastically from this years total. I don’t know if she’ll actually try and go for one full orgasm and a ruin or two per month or what. I guess I’ll find out as we go. Tonight she said she’ll grant me my 90th orgasm of 2022, down from 208 in 2021. As part of her getting more strict, maintenance spankings and pegging will be more consistent as she knows this keeps me in great submissive mindset. She has really taken over chastity this year, our third year of using the cage. It finally became serious for both of us, and just feels like the right way to live our sex lives, and I’m very excited to see how 2023 plays out. Hope you all have a great 2023 as well!
A goal we agreed on to go for is spending more quality time with each other. Not always that easy to manage though due to our jobs...
The cutting down orgasms is something my wife has been on a path for…we didn’t keep track so much in past years, but last year we did, and I was a total of 51 as of yesterday… next year she’s “scheduling” me for only 3 full orgasms - most of mine last year were early on as we were still letting my PA fully heal etc so prob 40 or if those were between Feb -April. Started wearing the new cage in late May and have been pretty limited, and last stretch that ended yesterday was 90…so looks like 120 days between full releases in 2023. I really wish I had my stats from prior years.
My wife is only now realizing that I don't really need orgasms (and it helps her if I don't have them), and that she doesn't have to go without to make me go without. Might be a challenging year ...
Interesting how they figure that out so quickly isn’t it? My Wife felt so guilty early on about denying my orgasms and now the more she denies me, the hornier she gets, and her orgasms per month have been increasing as we go.
Actually, I'd be fine with that. It's weird, but where my brain is at right now, I'm fine with whatever she decides. Not only fine, but happy and content. Weird. And simultaneously feeling very lucky.
Her goal is more kink: specifically impact play, bondage, pegging, and cuckolding. My goal is more service: specifically I'm to make breakfast for the family 5 days a week and dinner at least 1 night a week. In typical WLM form both goals were set by Her, but it was a couples effort. I asked for her goal specifically as we had some kink-free periods in 2022 that made it tough for me. As for my goal I asked for tasks to be set by Her that helped me enhance her life.
I loved the list of goals mentioned in this post for both the Domme and the sub..https://at.tumblr.com/sanaslave/705055176802910208/6yj90jsb7as2
My wife's list for me list is: Be more patient Respond quickly and politely when she calls for me No arguing with her ever