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    How long have you been caged? Not last time you got off but in a cage no breaks, not off to sleep etc. I'm committed to set a record of a month going towards valentines day. Tomorrow will be 14 days, personal best is 18 days. Rough moments here and there so far but basically settled in at this point.
     
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    Since 4th June 2022. Can’t be bothered to do the math but it’s approx 18 months I suppose. But really the cage is only a symbol at this stage - I’m not allowed to have any more sex ever, and I’d obey that rule even if the cage wasn’t there.
     
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    I've been locked up since New Year's Day so this session is going on day 23. I did receive a finger massage, pegging and a vibrator caged orgasm on the 13th and will remain locked until the 30th of this month. My last lock up was 89 days with a fingering on one occasion and a vibrator caged orgasm.
     
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    Since June 2023 24/7 unlocked briefly in December and I'm talking mins. She wanted to check if it still worked and once she got her answer I was forced back in
     
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    Longest for me is 6 days/nights no unlock. I was ready to be allowed out for a clean/shave.

    It's been about 3 weeks since last orgasm, longest is 5. Quite settled at rhe moment but roll on weekend when playtime usually happens and we'll see how much more I can cope with
     
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    Locked on NYE, key not used since.

    I've gone much longer but it's been tough this time. I've been keeping myself really busy, especially doing physical work, and it's been helping. Some days I am surprised by how much I get done and how much stamina I have.

    Over ten months since I last had an orgasm so I am horny as a dog with two dicks, but also I don't want to orgasm, which makes no sense to me.
     
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    As I’ve said before madam releases me every week or so to wash and groom. Bit as I have mentioned in other posts when she was unwell it has stretched to months at a time.
     
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    I think the longest for me was about 3 and a half weeks, I really want to try longer but she likes playing with her cock too much
     
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    I'm on day 16, a personal record. She really wants me to last until feb 10th when we get a room for valentines plans. It's getting rough at times but about halfway there.
     
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    Must be a very different experience in the context of a relationship that does include a full “menu” of sex and affection. I can see how extended periods of chastity would be MORE challenging than my unending desert landscape that I’m accustomed to!
     
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    My longest streak is 23 days and I've been trying for a full month, but lately I've been getting spontaneous orgasms (out of my control) in the 2 to 3 week range. It's really annoying because I wanna live out a fantasy of enduring months of T&D with no relief. But I'm a persistent guy, so I'll keep trying.
     
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    Went back in the cage on 17th October 2022 and haven't been out since then. So, a few days over 15 months.
     
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    A couple of weeks is my longest. Currently on day 1, which is what I'm usually on (when we're together, she likes it off at night).
     
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    21 days, almost made it to the end of Locktober. Oh well, next time.
     
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    Made it 17 days. Goal was a little over 30 until hotel room plans. She wanted morning sex and broke streak. So back on day three now. Not going to pretend it hurt my feelings getting off though. Room is 20 days away I was off a week in when reservations were. So I stay in I can get 20 some days be another record.
     
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    I have concerns about threads like this because so many guys in the chastity community have a tendency to get competitive, and may push themselves to wear a cage past the point where it's safe or reasonable.

    So what if you have to take your cage off to clean or shave? There is no contest, no prize for staying locked up "one more day" than the previous time. You won't get any money, no mention in Guinness, no free trip to Las Vegas.

    And yes, it's easy for me to say this, having been been locked for ridiculously long times, but that's something between Mrs Edge and I.

    Let's just keep it safe and sane out there, okay?
     
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    Nobody’s competing with anyone here… o_OWe’re here to hear each other out and offer support as necessary. I think your concern is unnecessary. Just chill out and enjoy your time with us. :cool:
     
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    Wasn't meant as a competition just time locked varies drastically by who you ask. Hence the parameters
     
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    I dont think this is an issue, if someone sees a post and thinks I want to try that, that's fine however its up to them to take some personal responsibility, do some research, use their brain and only do what safe or do we go down the rabbit hole and block everything because virtually everything can be harmful if you do it wrong or to excess, even drinking water!

    I think this is a valid and interesting post to see what others are doing and their points of view.
     
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    What makes it unsafe or unreasonable? I ask because unlike many contributors I only ever had one cage, it’s fine, so never occurred to me to try another. And I haven’t ever encountered a reason to remove it.
     
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    I've self locked for 4.5 yrs , my longest unlocked period was 9 weeks but generally unlock to clean and shave monthly. However thorough I try to be with daily cleaning after 8-10 weeks there is a scale like build of urine on the cage and it needs a bloody good clean . The cage is good to be worn much longer but don't see the point in getting untidy or smelly down there , that certainly isn't need by wife .
     
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    We’re wrapping up year 4 of cage use, my longest stint with zero unlocks is only 11 days. My Wife likes to tease her property, or use her property fairly often usually.
    What’s really not fun is I’m into week 9 of no piv and no oral service for my Wife due to a medical issue. So I’m now relegated to helping her use the Womanizer to get her orgasms. Hopefully she’ll be fully healed and ready to try piv again within a month or so, I’m really missing giving her head even more than the piv, I can’t wait till she’s feeling good again
     
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    Whoa, slow down there, Cisco! I am the last person who would suggest blocking anything here.

    I have been active in groups like this for a long time, and I have noticed that there are some guys who will, for the sake of a personal best, overlook chafing, abrasions, nicks, etc. How many times have we seen "My wife had me remove it until she was sure that I was fully healed."? There are some older posts around here describing ailments from guys being lax in removibg their cages.

    I'm just interjecting a note of caution, is all.
     
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