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    Anyone experience with blackmail? I'm thinking giving your keyholder information, contact, passwords, pictures or giving her e-mail to friends/old girlfriends so she can take total control over you. Information she can use against you if you don't do exactly as she tells you to. Maybe you could call it a little extra security lock for you chastity belt:wink:
     
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    Yes I have had experience with it the real thing over my TV experiences - not nice became a police matter. Careful.
     
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    What happened?
     
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    Personal opinion on the link... its either fantasy or complete abuse. I'm sorry to say that using alcohol = creating a non-consensual submissive = abuse.

    I'm afraid I really lost interest in the story after I found out she got him drunk to get her way...

    Blackmail is a serious matter. I'm not sure that it fits into BDSM play because "sane" and "consenusal" don't come into the matter.
     
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    Sorry bloke locked up here with a very clear studious head, thats such a fake letter!
     
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    Yeahh I think the letter is fake too and must agree on the alcohol think that's not very wise. :angel: But I like the blackmail idea in a little know she has the total power.
     
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    What happened I will pm
     
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    I guess to each their own. In fantasy land I guess blackmail works... I've often fantasised about being kidnapped and raped, but obviously would never want that to happen IRL. Our heads are funny places.
     
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    Yeahh I think the letter is fake too and must agree on the alcohol think that's not very wise. :angel: But I like the blackmail idea in a little know she has the total power.
     
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    ups....you might be right watchful. I don't think about complete blackmail maybe more of a playful blackmail. Where I know my partner can warn if I don't do the right think. I don't mean evil blackmail that is harmful.
     
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    do you keyholder have your passwords to forums and e-mails etc. so she can check what you are doing.
     
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    Yes.

    I don't view it as blackmail... just useful information to use as I please or if I feel it's necessary.
     
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    It still goes on of course but who ( with an IQ of 90 (Catel Scale) or more) would be stupid enough these days to give the information required with or without images to a prospective blackmailer?

    TBH I have little sympathy for most victims. I exclude the young the dull and extremely naive.

    Of course its a little different if the blackmailer was formerly considered a friend or was a partner.
     
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    Me too dont see that as blackmail and if he/she has to give the pass it means they knows are being watch so it is expected to be more careful

    For me blackmail can be force someone to suck a fake dildo while recording it and telling to obey or they will send that to a group of persons that will hurt you and them. With passwords and logins it may be the bank account or the paypal login or something like that, giving the login of a forum like this one it is nothing really important to be concerned about
     
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    It is exactly how i sees it, if you are dumb to tell the first person who ask you anything they want to knows you deserves what happens next
     
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