Reaction when unlocked?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Her_LM, Mar 20, 2023.

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Reaction when unlocked?

  1. Soft and stays soft.

    28.4%
  2. Semi hard and stays semi.

    27.4%
  3. Rock hard and stays hard.

    33.7%
  4. Hard but quickly returns to soft.

    8.4%
  5. Hard but quickly returns to semi.

    9.5%
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  1. Her_LM
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    Hi
    Interested to know peoples thoughts on this topic!
    When ever my wife unlocks me, i'll go from soft to fairly hard within a few minutes, but i soon return to just a semi hard or soft state! She'll just touch me/tease me, but i'll only be in a semi state all the time, anybody else have this reaction? Also if she decides to make me cum, which would only ever be a ruined orgasm, i'm even only soft or semi when this happens, she'll just hold her wand on me, which might only take a minute or two, she does tease me verbally that i can't get fully hard when unlocked, and after weeks of being locked, i thought i'd be rock hard too, not just semi hard for a few minutes!
    This is also the reason she will not have piv with me, she says its almost impossible!
    My wife often says this is the reason she keeps me locked, and the more times i don't stay hard, the longer she says i may of well be locked!
    Anybody else experience this reaction, my wife would like to know?
    Thank you
     
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    A lot depends on how long I've been locked up. If it's just been a week, diamond cutting hard! And throbbing.

    After 2 weeks it is kind of all over the place. Who knows? One time I immediately started ejaculating when she took the cage off. Another time I was nice and hard and had great piv!
     
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    I don't go all that long relative to others here, so as above it's all go go go & a race against time to get the base ring off as well otherwise it ain't going anywhere for a good while ...
     
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    Similar to above; It depends on many factors.
     
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    I put "semi". That's how it usually is when I take off the cage. Where it goes from there is up to her :)
     
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    I have the same reaction, when unlocked. Interstingly, 64 per cent are having the same, according to the poll. So, its absolutely natural, that a cock can't get hard after weeks in a locked chastity.
     
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    Not sure how to answer really. I take daily tadalafil, so when my Wife wants an erection, there’s zero issue.
    What’s interesting to me, if I am allowed to remove the cage for a shower and shave, he obediently stays limp most of the time unless I’m really over zealous with the soap.
    I feel like after the few years we’ve been using the cage, I’m mentally trained, that the penis stays under control quite well at this point.
    Even with piv I have very good control of him. I’m a dribbling mess in my cage, and when she touches me I feel like I’m going to cum from just a one finger stroke. But when she desires piv, even after she had denied me piv for 12 days recently, which is a long time for us, after the initial wave of feeling like I’m going to explode subsides, I’m able to give her penetration for 15-30 minutes so she can get what she wants and have her orgasm or two. And no accidents from me.

    I know when we both decided my orgasms would almost exclusively be given by her hand, that had a huge affect on my being able to separate piv as something for her orgasms only.

    We have both been very shocked by this, but it’s nice I don’t have to use numbing cream as much any more. It’s just becoming normal now.
     
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    Not sure how to vote. When let out for a good shower it stays soft. If let out to play its starts swelling as soon as the key goes in the lock.
     
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    i have vote. but when my cage is took off another one is put on.
     
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    When my Wife (KH) allows me me to take off my cage, it will depend what she wants to do with my penis.
    If I'm taking it off for cleaning and shaving...I get hard for a minute or two, then I go down to semi or soft.
    If I'm out so my Wife can play, she can keep me hard for as long as she wants. Sometimes, when she is in the teasing mood, she will make me hard, then will leave me alone until I go soft, then start all over again. Some days she might get me hard 10-15 times, bring me close to the edge, then back down to soft.
     
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    Wow........10 to 15 times she might repeat the teasing process, that never ever happens to me, that must feel exquisite, but also extremely hard for you at the same time too, i would love that. Your k/h must be very skilled, to do that to you but not to let you have an orgasm.....
     
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    I have to tell my Wife when I'm close to cumming so she can stop. She has become very good at being a key holder and doesn't mess around anymore. Sometimes when she wants a orgasm, I get no teasing, she doesn't care about me, she just takes care of her own needs. Some mornings, she will wake up and masturbate in front of me, then just get up once she has had her orgasm...I never know...
     
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    If you think it's an actual problem you should just try Cialis like someone else said. That stuff is like magic. Also has been shown to help men build muscle. Some body builders use it (although in their cocktail of drugs it's hardly the most important).
    As for the question, it probably comes down to length of time in cage without removal combined with your mind set. If you've only been caged a week and you're thinking sexual thoughts when unlocked you'll have a different experience than if you're caged (I assume, I've never done this) 1 month or longer and have mentally trained yourself not to think sexual thoughts.
     
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    How often does she let you out to play? That sounds amazing and amazingly difficult at the same time. I've only had 5 erections this year. Im really, really jealous! :oops: :confused:
     
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    Me too, extremely jealous. Last time I was out was in January. She unlocked me, teased me a little, hard to start with, then just started to go soft again, she said there was no point in carrying on, locked me back up again. Since then I’ve been locked with no play, my k/h has had numerous orgasms since then, mostly by herself, she’s loving it.
     
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    You're 4 1/2 ahead of me. I'm jealous too.
     
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    It depends on my Wife's mood. Maybe 2-3 times a month.
     
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    6 for me. Just sized down too so feeling very restricted, can't wait for a good stretch.
     
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    The cage doesn't allow me to get fully erect, but as soon as I get released I soon get fully erect.
     
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    It depends on my wife's mood too. In our case, maybe 2 or 3 months per time.
     
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    Reading back through this thread it just reminded me. My wife does this, too...take me out for a good edging session and drives me wild over and over again...then stops and back in the cage. I love it! Frequency has been fluctuating lately and as she gets more comfortable with our dynamic. While it was several times a week, on this past Sunday I reminded her that I hadn't been out of the cage for a week. Her response was basically "Wow, time flies, I had no idea." This is trending in a scary direction.
     
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    Several erections a week, you are spoiled. Tbh I don't think I could cope with unlocked t&d sessions, it would be very difficult getting soft enough to get back in the cage.
     
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    ice ice baby
     
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    Haha, I had that happen this morning. My wife laughed as I struggled trying to calm myself down enough.
     
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    Mine starts getting hard as soon as the key goes close to the lock.
    After unlocking i soften completely within a minute.

    I used to get hard being put back in the cage but now i stay completely limp.
     
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