Night (terror) erections

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    Ouch! my balls are being ripped off, My lady has the key and I dare not wake her, she would be very unimpressed. Will this terror subside over time. What devices do people recommend that lessen night erections..... Ouch!!!
     
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    I found anything with less growing room helped, so a snug fitting cage when soft. Also some baby oil on balls helps to stop your balls getting sore
     
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    you get over that with time.
    Don't drink before bed. Not until your over this issue at least.
     
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    Go have a wee and put some baby oil or lotion or whatever you use to lube the ring on.

    As others have said a nice snug cage that stops the erections from even starting helps but you don't have one right now...
     
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    I just remembered my early days in chastity!
    Same feelings!
    Time will heal all your problems!!
    It's not the pain; it's the surrender!
     
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    get in the shower and turn the shower on cold and drench your cock in cold water.
     
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    I'd wake her up, unpleasant suffering shouldn't be a component in a relationship (unless that's your kink).

    You need a smaller cage to stop erections. Space is not your friend. I have a normal sized cock, but my cage is only 3cm.
    My wife loves it, it's more comfortable and it doesn't effect uncaged erections, in fact they seem more impressive, lol.

    You need to discuss your discomfort with your significant other, discomfort is not the goal of chastity play.

    Or tough it out.

    I'd discuss the issue, try again and have in mind the idea of buying a new cage.

    Then everyone is happy.
     
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    Thanks all, the cage I am wearing is the first experiment, I will look into a smaller cage, plenty of lubricating lotion did help, toughing it out as in the end it is what I asked for. I am looking at the holy trainer, the ring sizing is a bit confusing but I'll get there.
     
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    Hi,

    I have one and they're comfortable. That said, even their small size has some room to move or turtle. I prefer no room.
    I'm trying a cheap Chinese metal small now, with modifications. I like it, so I'll upgrade to a proper metal cage soon.

    Good luck.
     
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    Hi,would you post a picture of your chinese metal small or the url link please
    Thanks
     
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    During a prolonged period of lockup, I began having nightime erections and, after several uncomfortable nights, to reduce my buildup, Mistress milked me one night before bed. Did not have any more of those nocturnal erections. Doesn't seem like a permanent solution, but have not had the problem since.
     
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