Symbolism of male chastity in marriage vows

Hello everyone. I hope you are all doing well. This is for all the creative thinkers out there. So get your mind juices flowing and let's see what we can come up with.

So here's the deal....

I will be getting married very soon. We chose to write our own vows. I have been throwing ideas around to somehow incorporate the symbolism and level of commitment of male chastity into my vows.

Nothing explicit, super kinky or over the top. Just a hint or reference here or there as the vows will be said in front of family, friends, and children.

I think this might also help with writing the rest of my vows since chastity is a high level of commitment and giving of ones self to your partner. Now obviously I know there is probably very few things greater than the level of commitment of marriage, but I think giving of ones self completely over to your spouse in a sexual manor is part of that commitment of marriage.

So let's see what everyone comes up with.

I will lead with an example. Of something along the lines of what I was thinking.

" ..... And as I stand here in front of God, our family and friends I do swear that I will always strive to be better than I was the day before, to be you partner in crime as well as your SERVANT after a long day, to be your friend as well as your lover and companion. To love you forever and always for you will always hold the KEY to my heart, my soul and all that I am....."

 

Or maybe

And as I stand here in front of God, our family and friends I do swear that I will always strive to be better than I was the day before, to be you partner in crime, to SERVE after a long day, to be your friend as well as your lover and companion. To love you forever and always for you will always hold the KEY to my heart, my soul and all that I am.....

 

Not traditional.

We've been together for 3 years living together already and practically living as a married couple already. So def not trapped or stuck in an abusive relationship.

Just looking for possible one to two sentences statements that are low key and hint at it is all. And it's not make or break for either of us. Just thought it would be a nice surprise since we're writing our own vows and obviously don't know what the other is planning or writing

 

Thanks for the responses.

I def think I'll leave the serve part out. But maybe key holder to my heart etc is prob more than enough.