Why Do I ask? Well, My wife only recently picked up the fine art of edging me, - and I thought, -from readings at CM etc., that it was meant as a display of power and control, and a kind of torment, but... What I have come to realize is that too much edging will have the same effect - in terms of lowering service standards, - temporarily fading sex drive - the day after etc... - as a release. And that is a no go for my wife. She has therefore put foreword a new policy - the policy of no edging, - no stimulation of "her" cock and balls, - Nothing! Instead she has turned up the frequency in which I have to inhale her scents, - Whatch her touch herself, etc... How does edging affect Your submissive mindset? Am I a lonely stranger?
My wife loudly states that she loves the control that edging gives her and she is good at it. The more she leaves me hanging, the more frustrated and horny I get. She mixes this up with sex while I am locked and she will play with my balls and nipples only. That also makes me very horny. The only thing that calms me down is when she has an orgasm. Luckily, tormenting me turns her on so that even when she starts off telling me she does not want to cum, she usually gets so turned on, that she does.
Edging for sure makes me horny as hell, -but the aftermath surprises me a lot... I love to stay inside the "Bubble" - and edging seems to set me back... Her alternative is most welcome
My KH does none of the teasing,edgeing,denial,or her pleasure via any stimulation. But verbally gives me domestic orders, then gives me an O every 14 days just to reset the clock so to speak. On day 14 it could be anything just to get me off as its up to her then. Id love teasing,edgeing,denial,or her pleasure days, but the woman is like a stone on this.