So, I had rotator cuff surgery a few months ago, and today I had to go to see my specialist. My Wife left me the key because she didn’t want me going to the Dr wearing it... I do, however, always wear it to physio so it’s been on since surgery except for the three Dr visits. I have never felt so naked, vulnerable, woebegone and just SAD in my life, I was seriously mourning my free state, nothing felt right. Not only that, my Wife is angry because I used the key without facetiming her while I was removing it, I’m guessing a spanling is coming at the least. My question is, does anyone feel a sense of loss when they are released from their device?
Definitely! It provides a constant reminder to me of my owned controlled status, of our amazing lifestyle. And of my status, as a possession of my madam.
Yes!! I feel so loved and protected in my belt. Being free is OK I guess but I prefer the "being owned" feeling of wearing a device that my wife controls. Every pinch, pull, tug and the countless times you need to adjust your device is a constant reminder of being a submissive. Sometimes my wife will watch me adjust the cage and she'll ask "too tight"? and laugh. I just love everything about it.