Ideas to spice up chastity life

Does your sister know what the keys are for?
-Hubby

 

Yes she knows, she knows it all now. It will be a very interesting meeting next Christmas...

Best,
Her hubby

 

To be 100% honest, you two just need to communicate. Be willing to give mostly anything a try once... but you already know this. You have been married for 26 years.

If you have run out of idea on chastity, maybe you should just think of some thing you know you would enjoy seeing him do. My wife would rather have a back rub before bed then oral sex or sex 90% of night. That is just what she wants, and sometimes if I am lucky enough she will play around with me (orgasm not included).

I guess what I am trying to say is, you guys just need to set goal and expectations of what you want to do with this. I guess what I am trying to say is you need to be honest with yourself & willing to communicate that with your partner, and the partner has to understand that no matter what the other person says... don't get alarmed.

For all you know your partner wants to wear women's underwear and is afraid to mention it... It might do nothing for you, but maybe you won't care if he does or not. Just be honest.

 

maybe you need to ask him some things he likes too?

 

My wife has taken to making me expose myself constantly. "Drop your pants let me see it." Giggles then says something like "Pathetic" or "Love it" and other things. Then "You can go now". She might pass by me. grabs them and says "mine" as I walk by. She comes down to my office while Im at work (remotely). Makes sure I am not on an active conference. Then says "Inspection. Get over here" funny how much of a mind fuck that is. She gets a lot of mileage out of all that.makes me feel embarrassed and totally submissive to her which is not my norm. She really isnt doing much and my little asexual romantic vanilla wife of 30 odd years is honestly having quite a bit of fun with it I think.

 

Keep him locked for longer periods and deny him for 2 months

 

The best way to keep long-term chastity going and keep you both interested, I think, is for you to get what you want out of it sexy-time wise, and that may should him interested too.

Couple thoughts other thoughts/suggestions:
- Keep him naked at home
--- Alternatively, make him wear sexy clothes you like to see on him (no matter what they were)
- Get a strap on. For him to use on you. Every night (or as often as you like. This is the biggest mind fuck my wife gives me, the motions of but none of the feelings of)
- Attach a leash to his cage and have it come out the front of his pants. Use it to drag him around.
- Its Christmas time. Create an advent calendar where each day has something sexy he has to do for you (foot massage, give you a luxury bath, whatever you want)


And then maybe for when you get he keys back for January, rather than giving the away again, get a really hard puzzle box and put the keys in it. Or create a "sexy scavenger hunt" for him to track the keys down again.

Good luck!

 

Have him write erotic fiction, and read it aloud to you once a week. During the week, make sure you talk to him about how important it is for him to make the story as sexy as possible. This is a great way to get into his dirty thoughts, as he will run out of material if he tries to avoid certain fantasies.

Slowly add in requirements such as acting out voices, physically demonstrating sex acts (humping the couch or whatever), performing in the nude, etc. Maybe record his performances. Just the idea that you have video will live in his mind all the time.

Give him a grade based on the story and performance.

How hot is it?
How well written?
How was the performance?
Etc.

Give conflicting feedback. It's not nearly hot enough one week, but goes way too far the next week.

You can reward or punish him based on his story. Dangle a release with his favorite sex act for a perfect score. Since you make the score, you can easily make it happen or prevent it from happening at your whim.

If he scores well, tell him that you want to share your video with your friends, and make him sign a release form. Even if you don't plan on sharing, that will fuck with his head. Get a friend to compliment him on the video (it hardly matters if she has seen it or not). Watch his face turn red (or sheet white).

Give specific assignments. Make him write about himself being made to break his own boundaries.

Fun times.

 

Not very creative, but very effective:
Pegging!

My wife was hesitant at first. But grew slowly into it. Now she just loves it!
The amount of power exchange that you will feel, when your husband has his head buried in a pillow as he moans like a girl, while you slam your hips against his butt...

it’s priceless

 

Creative things to do with your sissy.


Make him dress in sexy female clothing; heels, mini skirt, braw, nice tight top, wig, ear rings,

Collar him in a lockable stainless steel collar with a leash

Make him address you as Mistress or what ever you like

Attach a leash to his chastity device and make him follow you

Make him helpless; blindfold him, secure his arms behind his back and make him do as you desire

Attach a wireless TENS to his chastity cage. I find this to be a wonderful way to edge a sissy and with a little more power it is a great way to control your sissy.

Of course make his give you pleasure while under your control

Pegging him while he is helpless may be fun

Have him use a strap on device on you while cages -



Talk about what turns you on and what turns him on. There so many ways to have fun.

There has to be some reward for the sissy, so if he performs as you desire, he should get a little pleasure.


Enjoy life - Lisa

 

I am Gee-c's husband and my key is still with her sister. I do not know how long. Yesterday the two families met and short before, she sent me the picture of the key as proof that it is still with her. I was most likely totally red headed all the time. Today we made some pictures in our photo studio

 

My wife told me she wasn't into having sex with a tiny penis male any more. She had locked me up before for a few weeks, but now she told me I have to be owned by her gf's (all 5 of them). One of them has the key and I must obey them all or never get out of my cage. Each session I am given a choice (usually on a Sunday afternoon), I can roll a dice and stay locked up for a number of weeks corresponding to the number on the dice (after which I will be released and given the same number of minutes to CUM I a fashion decided by them) or I can choose to guess which of the Ladies has the key ( they all have the same type on a necklace, but only one fits my cage lock). If I choose right, I get 3 minutes to jerk off and CUM (while I am wearing an amply amount of Icy Hot muscle relaxers on my ball sack) Then I get locked up again and we roll the dice again.
During my time in chastity I am required to perform for my mistresses ( I do all the routine things they don't want to do - sexually that is) I take care of ANY need one of the husbands has and as often as they want me too.
I am used by them every day and I thank them for using me. Failure to satisfy them can mean a harsh spanking, whipping or penalty time in my chastity cage.
I hope you can use this as an idea to help you and your sister keep things in place

 

Sometimes you just gotta call BS

 

BS?

 

Take time to play with him. A 5 minute session caressing and touching his caged member will drive him wild. Take the opportunity occasionally to press your body up against his and let him feel the frustration. A 10 minute makeout session with some heavy petting will rev him up and keep him reminded of his denied state.

There are tons of creative ways to keep things fun that don't have to take a lot of effort or time.

 

a large pile

 

BS - Bovine Sewage

 

They were suggesting that one of the posts was bs (bullshit).

 

yes it seems our friend Tom mistook this thread for the Member Fiction section.

 

BS = Bovine Sewage = BullShit

Trying to protect tender ears obviously doesn't work if the ears truly are tender.

 

Lol, we are not native English speakers but I can tell you some Swiss German jokes if you like...