Chivalry is not dead gentlemen!

That is a worthy goal!

 

You are on a web site full of men wearing cock cages. I'm pretty sure asking for agreement here is not going to get you an unbiased poll

 

Yea that's the main goal of all this really, just as you stated it. Focus ALL a man's sexual energy on his woman who now holds the key to his sexual pleasure, literally. That's really the fundamental core to all this.

 

My wife and I had a discussion about this topic over breakfast this morning. I described that the harder she pushes me, challenges me, the more I am forced to embrace the frustration, redirect my energy, and focus on how to best submit and serve her. Not be a 'submissive' in a master/slave context, but driven to attune to her to make her experience the best it can be, which in turns brings out an authentic desire in her to attune to and understand me to further intensify and enhance my experience. It becomes win/win in that we see the value in putting focus on our partner's desires as a way to compel them to put the focus on meeting our desires. And it seems to compound, and the experience gets better and better. To the point where the old ways simply don't do it for us.

My wife agreed with how that has been playing out for us over the past months (with chastity).

I could stop at "I'm horny all the time" and play a cat and mouse game until release. Or really pause, let it all sink in, feel the frustration, feel the power of her feminine self challenging my masculine and use that to make the experience even stronger for both of us. That goes back to the "respect' thread. I think that is less about respect (initially) and more about boredom. If we're not constantly expanding, pushing ourselves, learning and pushing each other, we will simply get bored.

If we're not exploring our next desire is and finding a way to realize it, we'll get stuck in a state of stagnation and restlessness. I think if that goes long enough, we'd lose respect. For ones self and the sub. That's all preventable if we're conscious of it and take the steps to push ourselves.

 

I agree!