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    #1 subby8, Aug 8, 2021
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    Hello,

    @feather and me could celebrate our 2nd year after me met in a few days.
    Looking back it has been a ride in a roller coaster and if someone would have asked me two years ago, I wouldn't have seen it coming.
    @feather - I - love - you.

    We both came from other remationshipa and decided to be super open, which allowed me to raise the whole FLR "topic".
    While it feels great, it seems to be hard not only to decide being in a FLR is what I want, but also to follow through, even in times when other topics (job / children from the former relationship / ...) are also eating up focus.
    We had also something like a contract in place, which helped (at least me) to show that I am sure but in the last week's and holidays where we were unable to see each other because of different holiday plans (we both have kids from the former relationship) it was time for a reset.
    Throwing all other "rules" away, we are currently in a process clarifying what works best for her and me.
    The problem might have been, that I put much thinking in the topic FLR and tend to be dominant so that it was not that easy for her. As it's all about her and I really mean this, she dedicated to rewrite the rules how this can work.
    And this post is the beginning of something which is very important to her: Writing a PUBLIC journal.
    She stated:
    (...) My sub should write a public journal. A blog about his submissive thoughts and feelings, also about sex and our relationship.
    Even more important to do so in the beginning very often (...)

    Asking for more details, trying to move away from the idea, that it has to be written in "the internet", she made pretty clear, that she wants it to be here.
    So it should be.
    Depending on what/how I write, she might decide one day to show this to someone else, which is kind of frightening but also a turn on (I must admit ...).

    I will see her tonight after 4 (?) week of summer holidays (her/me).
    Emotional roller coaster goes on.
    I need to update the journal (soon).
    Feathers.sub
     
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    good luck both
     
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    Sub, I want to see you. And don't let me wait too long...!
     
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    Sweetness, here I am.
    Locked and in love.
     
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    Hope your both having fun!
     
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