I rarely chat. Past experiences showed me that sooner or later it starts heading towards sex play online. In fact, the first time I used chat here was the other day. As soon as I got in, some Mistress or Goddess, asked me what I am looking for. There are a lot of people using chat. Are they discussing how long it has been since they had an orgasm or having online sex?
Usually it's about the weather and how many cups of coffee they had that morning. As sexual as it gets someone might discuss their wife meeting someone soon...that's about it.
I've gone in there a couple of times and there wasn't much going on. Just a little back and forth. I kind of felt like a 3rd wheel in one conversation one time.