Last weekend my wife and I had "play time". We started out with me giving her oral which 90% of the time gives her an orgasm but it wasn't happening that night so we moved onto using her rabbit and still she could not orgasm I guess it wasn't our night. After that she offered to still give me a hand job and I let her but told it was only fair that she stop just before I orgasmed so I would have to suffer the same frustrations as her. At that point she locked me in my cage and we snuggled up for bed. Here is where it gets interesting, while we were snuggling up I mentioned that I should be punished for my poor performance and that she should deny me orgasms until she gets X amount of orgasms over time. she agreed and chose to get 5 orgasms before I am allowed to have any. I told her I needed an incentive not to masterbate on days she doesn't want me locked (ill explain later) or not to orgasm when she is playing with me. She can still give me hand jobs, blow jobs and even have sex I just can't orgasm. She couldn't think of anything so I said well how about you pick something of mine and if I orgasm before your 5 you can sell it and keep the money to spend on yourself. I'm thinking shes going to pick something small from around the house, nope she says okay your BMW. (its my fun weekend summer car) It being my idea I agreed. The next morning I wrote up a contract that we both signed, I also gave her the title to the BMW and she locked both documents in her safe. Now for the reason I have days where I'm not locked up. My wife and I have busy lives as many do and we both travel for work and have kids. I work from home so on those days and on weekends I'm locked up. However when I travel or go to visit customers she doesn't like me being locked so I'm in essence free and up until now haven't practiced orgasm denial when free. In the past it was okay for me to masterbate and there were no consequences but now there is a huge consequence if I do.
yea when I go on overnight business trips either fly or drive or even local customer visits she doesn't want me in a cage. I'd prefer to stay locked up but she doesn't want me to be so I do as I'm told.
If you truly wish to be chaste for your wife, then the will power should be there. In a way, it is a good sign she trusts you, so don't do anything to lose that.
You just know your wife is going to be very motivated. And doing everything in her power to break you. Stay strong. My wife and I are new to this. She doesn't want me locked at work either Have to lock up when I get home though.. It's her choice. She sets the rules.
She hasn't tried yet but who knows maybe she'll try on Valentines day or my birthday the day after. I work from home so its just on days when I make customer visits or go out of town for customer visits. the away ones are what I worry about but so far I made it through one trip last week. my next away trip is in a few weeks.
With the kids activities and other life/work activities we don't play around during the week just on the weekends so this past weekend she let me give her an orgasm so 1 down 4 to go. (the weekend before was that time of the month so it was a no go per her, she thinks its gross) crossing fingers she lets me give her 2 this weekend.
Well last night I gave her #2. She did offer to lower the number I have to give her for cleaning the bathrooms yesterday but not sure I should take that offer or not. thoughts?
I have faith you can do this and you owe it to her. Why should you be rewarded for work you should have done anyway. Remember it’s about her your needs,risks,or losses should not factor into this. just one person’s view
that was my thoughts as well which is why I told her no. just wanted to see if others thought the same.
Ok now maybe it’s my current situation (traveling so chastity without being locked up) but I had a thought about this to show how much you love her and appreciate her KH. after the 5th orgasm you tell her your going to sell the BMW and give her the money because she wanted it and her happiness means more than a car to you. Just an idea, your a lucky man to have what you have. I would give up a lot more than a car for it.