A question for past Locktober participants

I did Lcoktober last year and it did make me feel different about being in chastity. But i imagine that you'll get a wide range of answers, as some are always locked, so not big deal, while for others it was the longest they'd been deprived. I would just try to get out of if what you can. Hopefully, it will help her to see how much you enjoy it.

 

My first time going more than 30 days was seriously an emotional rollercoaster.
...But at the end of 30 days, I was on such a hormonal high that I didn't want it to end.
I knew then that there was no turning back, chastity is now a permanent part of my life.
I actually feel a bit naked if I'm not wearing a cage.

 

My first time going a full month was an experience.

for sure that changed things as far that was a proof for my GF that was possible to keep me locked for a long time. Also lighted the bulb for: how much time I can keep you locked? And it’s been a continuous challenge since then.

 

I found it simultaneously: frustrating; erotic; exciting; and improving.

 

same here! Although I didn’t do my first plus 30 day lock up for locktober, it was before it had been thought of! It was because my madam wanted me locked 24/7 for her.
But I also feel naked without a cage, i feel like something is missing, the rare occasion I am allowed out of my cage I constantly feel like I have forgotten something!

 

Locktober has really helped us in the FLR journey to now, and been a fun event. I'd say from what you have written, and in her willingness to participate in it, she is definitely getting more into it.

With my Goddess, at first, she had a hard time with it and understanding it. I had never played with it, and was learning too. Having a event to go with it, helped push it through, make it fun and comfortable. Ultimately, if you really want to help get her into it more, make this a memorable time for her. Take her on a date or two, chastized, but as you normally would. Learn to talk with her, ask her about herself. Make her feel special.

If you can keep it a fun a naughty little thing between you two, and work at being a better version of your unchastized, likely unsatisfied, porn lurking, regular masc self, and it shows her the benefits, without explaining them.

For the record, it took my Goddess and I roughly 3 years, as well as three wonderful Locktobers in that time to get where we are now. She took chastity as her own, and now demands it from me all of the time. She prefers me this way. It took time and effort, but all things considered, we are both very happy. We call each other 'my person''. It can go that way for anyone.

It just takes a commitment to the process and bringing her to a place of ease and security within it. Good luck!

M.

 

Every month is locktober for me... A chastity cage is just part of my daily routine, has been for years, self locked, but 30 days is a cakewalk.

 

It actually did the reverse for me last year - made me run away at the end of it.

 

Yeah my sex drive cratered for about 3 months. Coincided with being unhealthy and in lockdown but still…. And yes I had a kh who I couldn’t get to at the agreed end point due to lockdowns which was part of the problem. Ended up using emergency key and having release session (cumming in cafe then off) with some lovely kink friendly girls but it just…wasn’t what it should have been.

 

Last year was my first locktober but not the first time I'd been locked a whole month.
My keyholder didn't force or order me to do locktober but it was established that if I did lock in the days before then locktober was happening... It turned into locktober and NOvember but I made it out before Christmas