Hi Everyone! I recently joined the site today after years of lurking. After owning a holy trainer for a year and wearing it often for my girlfriend, I thought I'd turn it up a notch and purchase an Access Denied which have recently returned thanks to guys at Fancy Steel. Due to the reduced early bird cost, I purchased one after some consideration and research. It's now on it's way and I'm getting slightly nervous about wearing it 24/7. Would wearing a leather belt on my waist to "train" my body help at all? Also, if anyone wears or has owned a full belt like a NeoSteel or anything like that, it there any advice You can give in regards to preparing myself physically and mentally. (TLDR: ordered a full belt and need advice on preparing my body and mind)
Dont worry. The belt will prepare your mind )) Focus on gradual adjustment and bending of the waist belt. Please post any issues and I will try to shelter you from the mistakes I made
Oh great! Thanks so much Will the waist belt bend on it's own while i'm wearing it or will I have to manually adjust it? Thanks again!
I'm getting this: https://www.chastityco.com/products...ess-denied-male-chastity-belt-full-rear-style
Congrats. Looks great! Looks like it sits between the hips and the waist. It may hurt from the start and a lot of it needs to be toughened out. Bend the metal as you see fit. "We are all different" as Monty Python would say.. Take this ad notem and respect your own body and its quirks. Burning sensations should be taken seriously. Take a break, treat and nurish the whole ara with aloe vera or other treatment. Take care of your penis and balls and keep it all in good shape: Chastity requires something potent to chasterize. Or else, it wouldnt make any sense
Ahh I see, thanks so much for the help! I need to rid myself of this "pie in the sky" idea that I'm going to put it on the first time and it's going to be perfect but the reality is that I need to pace myself before I give my partener the key for a significant amount of time. Thanks again for the advice
I just saw this belt on Fancy Steel's Fetlife page... I assumed it must be them making it. You referred to 'research'... did you find a review or like?
You're welcome I was in agony the first time I wore my Neosteel. It lasted 10 minutes. Next time, it lasted a couple of hours. It took some weeks and bending to get comfortable. Now, several years later, I'm on day 16 of this period. So there is a pie in the sky. It just takes time to reach it
Yeah I read some reviews from people who purchased an Access denied belt back in the day (maybe 1999- 2001) and they mostly had good reviews but I couldn't find any for the recent iteration. I then read some reviews of fancy steel belts to get an idea of their standard of quality since they are making the belts now. There was one worrying review I read about someone who had to wait 6 months for theirs to arrive and still didn't fit but that was back in 2014 when it was just Jay working on his own. The vast majority of other reviews where positive so I felt confident enough ordering it
Oh wow, yeah I can imagine! I bet the feeling is intensified massively by knowing there is absolutely no escape whatsoever, compared to a conventional tube like I have at the moment. That's the main reason I chose to get a full belt instead of a PA ( I'm a bit of a wuss).