How many of you are Not Submissive

I'm not naturally submissive for sure. I actually consider myself quite dominant in life and, theoretically, also in bed.
Still, my GF uses chastity to make me a bit more submissive exactly because of that (she's very annoyed by my "permanent alpha" natural behavious in every situation of my life). There are also other reasons she decided to use it (i.e., my mood improves greatly, we fight less, I'm way more energetic and motivated to do useful stuff, the fact she likes it from a sensual p.o.v., etc.), but I could say chastity is there to MAKE me submissive, since I'm not like that at all in a natural state.
If it was for me I'd get rid of it, but it's something you get to hate to love, and after some days inside I change so much I totally understand why she wants it on often and I find myself begging to dont be released.

 

I’m pretty alpha in the vanilla world but very submissive in sexual and BDSM roles

 

That's us. We have an otherwise conventional marriage, but we've been playing with enforced chastity on and off for 20 years.

For us, it's just a fun kink to share, since we both enjoy it. We've tried some D/s and FLR, but it just didn't take. Yet for some reason, we keep coming back to the devices; me because I enjoy the low level simmer, and Mrs Edge because she enjoys my attentiveness.

 

*puts hand up*.
Totally me, I am a dominant person in social life and work. I am in my relationship also, buy sexually I am 100% submissive.
It does make for a rather strange dynamic with chastity.
I of course brought the idea up, purely from a sexual standpoint- no thought given to it tbh.
My partner is definitely finding ones power and dominance in the bedroom department now due to my cock being blocked up. I simply have no power over bedroom antics anymore and I the better half loves it.

The dynamic for us is strained to a degree as I suppose where I am dominant generally, the usual dynamic I see on here with the chastised being fully submissive in the whole Ness of the role of their relationship, which is something I very much struggle with.

We are meeting a block where we go with the toying and joy of chastity if I'm a dominant force.

 

I am submissive to Miss Amanda, but not submissive at all in all other aspects of my life.

 

well im Mistress maid so i do all the house work and cooking and lots of things.

 

Unless you're just doing it for short-term kinks, any man that locks up his cock to give to his mate, is at least a little bit submissive. Like many things in life, submission is not a binary choice, there can be a wide range of how much one does. To me, it's all good.

 

I am compleatly submissive, we live a 24/7 FLR-BDSM relationship/lifestyle so there is no vanilla part for us, I am submissive at all times.

 

I’m submissive sexually in the main part, I can and do the whole Alpha male thing if needed, but I find I’m more comfortable being sexually submissive to females.

the flip side is in my daily life I’m very masculine and dominant (contrary to how I am on here lol).