So I’m an old guy, just turned 60. Been with BK a lifetime through good and bad times. Great sex life in the beginning and lately in the past few years we added some Femdom, an FLR and chastiy. From there it’s a common story. Selfish man pushes the wife to perform, she hates the pressure and shuts down, Oh wait we all know that story because most of of lived it or read about it. Wish I could have a do over, BK and most woman deserve better and not because they are superior, but because they are our lovers and our wives and our friends. So here I am now with some medical issues. Problem is BK an I were doing great just before that. She was really getting into being BK Wife for real. I was living my fantasy, at least most of the time. But now my age and mortality is poking at me. It’s takes the fun away and makes me sad most of the time right now. The reason for the post is to remind the younger people and older ones to have fun and love your partner, that way there’s no regrets. Maybe winning the next fight isn’t so important in the big picture. Maybe you don’t push her so hard and she has time to be herself. Maybe a little suffering on your part now by waiting for her pays big at the end for both of you. My medical issues are not life threatening just enough to stop our fantasy life for now and I know everyone does not need me to tell them this stuff. I just wanted to and I have not posted in a long time and I miss this place.
Miss you too, like a distant brother. You know what "they" say, "Getting old ain't for sissies!" Oh wait...... Get well soon.
Whew! Truly glad to hear this. Hope you are back on your feet and locked up by your lovely wife and keyholder soon.
@Gigaman , have missed you and @BKwife. Been really sorry to hear about your health issues (jmm, I turn 60 later this year, so I appreciate the increasing unreliability of the body). Hang in there, get better, and as you advise us: live in the moment and make the most of your lovely relationship.
Wow that is a great post @Gigaman ! This is a post that anyone who gets to read it should be glad you posted it and thank you for your words of wisdom! It’s much appreciated
I wish they were words of wisdom, it’s more of a story. Very cliché but it’s true you really don’t miss anything until it’s gone. I think everybody knows that the problem being you don’t realize it until it’s actually happening. I remember the times I use the bitch at BK because I thought she didn’t do something right, say something right, or do something at the perfect timing. Looking back at it now it was all bullshit on my part. Especially if you have somebody that’s willing to work with you like BK was. they shouldn’t have to go through that. Like I said before just have fun, Life is short and even shorter when you get older!
I feel like the words I've been reciting to you all these years are coming back to bite you piggy. Be grateful for what you have
And you thought he wasn't listening! We males can be slow learners and some have the scars to prove it. I heard a saying once that is in line with this post, "We get to soon old and too late smart", too true.
There is a lot of stuff coming back to bite me in the ass. It use to be only your cane I had to worry about. Now it’s your words too.
Your words are loud and clear @Gigaman I’m 56 so I know what your talking about. Non of us know how long it’ll be until our health changes and we have to also change our lifestyle. Enjoy the day. Take care.
Great to hear from you @Gigaman . I'm sure your words will touch a lot of those out here. Through life we often take for granted those things that are closest to us, that includes those beautiful women that have put up with all the BS from us over the years. I know in my heart and your's that those words are spoken from deep inside and your wish is that others will listen and take heed to do better for their loves. To all please listen To @BKwife , From this day forward, make it the best for all of our women!;-) Thanks @Gigaman
Thanks Bud, if I didn’t know better I would think BK was talking to me. Believe it or not she calls me piggy all the time in real life. If she get mad it’s just Pig in a very different tone.
As I used to remind one of my female co-workers, "All men are pigs, some just hide it (or suppress it) better than others.
Sry to hear that Brother . At 62 and my own medical issues I treat everyone and everyday like it's my last in chastity . This life just started for us and I don't want it to end anytime soon . Hope you get better soon . Miss you on here .
Hey @Gigaman whatever the issues are I’m pulling for you man. You and @BKwife deserve a long and happy continuation of your lives, get well buddy!
Thank you guys, BK and I miss all of you. This medical stuff is just draining and it really gets me down. It’s been a long two months!
Apparently there are quite a few folks here around the same age - me included. I've been lucky for the most part health wise - its sciatic nerve stuff that gets me now and again. Medical adventures are very unfun. You struck a chord here that resonates deeply with me. And many of you have added to the strength of that vibration. @Gigaman & @BKwife , et al ... y'all are family.