Tools to make ruined orgasms easier to achieve?

I can almost always achieve a ruined orgasm in my cage using a vibrator. Most of the time I can get right to the edge and completely empty myself without having an orgasm. In my experience, it's much more difficult for the partner to get you right to that edge using a vibrator without either stopping too soon or going past the point of no return. However she is really good at milking me using various toys and her hand.

 

Just buy a magic wand vibrator... and have her hold it on your device...

If she wants it to come out in pulses, she just needs to hold it on the device until you cum... and you squirt out while you throb...

If she wants you to have a ruined orgasm she can do it until she thinks you are about to cum and stop short and use a finger or two on to gently get you to orgasm...

It's all about the practice on her end to get the result she wants, but if she just wants you to cum or orgasm in your male chastity device... just hold this sucker on it until you blow.

https://hitachimagic.com/hitachi-ma...FOaUnNPOS6fCudmjYqfciV9VYaDf3j9BoCEM0QAvD_BwE

Good luck.

 

If you can take your device off, just get a fleshlight stamina model...

https://www.fleshlight.com/collections/stamina-training-fl-toys

When she thinks you are about to come, she just takes it off and waits a couple of seconds to see if you ruin... if you don't back in for another stroke... If you come inside of it... I guess that won't matter to her cause you can be the one to clean it out.

Enjoy.

https://www.fleshlight.com/collections/stamina-training-fl-toys

 

A vibrator is the way to go. It might depend on what kind of cage you have and how it fits if you want the cage on. Metal can create pressure points. Plastic or silicone spreads the sensation out.

 

I've so far not had a ruin or uncaged tease and denial. Early days and I don't want to top from the bottom. He's given me a handjob and threatened to stop and lock me back up, but so far hasn't gone through with that threat. Really hoping he does at some point.

 

There's also the Edge-o-Matic, if you want to have it fully automated.

It can be used both for edging with denial or ruined orgasm if configured properly.

A bit costly though.

https://maustec.io/products/eom3k

 

Brutal

 

And expensive.....but can you put a price on a ruined orgasm ? LOL

 

I seriously considered spending the money for this but since I hesitated, Maustec has since struggled to get components and is constantly rationing how many orders he'll take. Unless you get really lucky, you won't be able to order this one anytime soon.

 

I've got one, and it does work once you get it adjusted properly. Of course nothing can replace the frustration that can dished out by a partner that knows you and your body.

Mostly we use a wand massager with 3d printed chastity cage adapters (flexible TPU). They make things mess free and hands free.

 

What is the point of a runined orgasm?

I've heard it's more torturous to the caged, but also heard it is as pleasurable as you can get without a normal orgasm.

I'm don't understand why someone wouldn't simply tease and deny or let orgasm.uess this heightens the denial and frustration. If it's more pleasurable, just let the poor guy nut .

Help me out here

 

A ruined orgasm can be fun and pleasurable without the libido drop that can accompany a "full" orgasm. The person ruined can be left horny and in kink headspace.

Personally my KH isn't a fan of the 2-4 days of "downtime" it takes for me to rev back up after a full orgasm. She likes to "manage" my level of frustration, providing ruined orgasms to bleed a little frustration off or edging to build it up.