What are you grateful for?

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  1. littleguy3
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    littleguy3 Adoring husband

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    I was inspired by @beta7 's thread but didn't want to walk all over it.

    So what about your chastity experience are you grateful for?

    For me it's:
    • A willing key holder
    • A willing key holder who takes her role seriously
    • A willing key holder who is my gorgeous wife
    • A willing key holder who teases me frequently to keep me in a loving state
    • A willing key holder who keeps me in denial long enough to know my place
    • A willing key holder who is committed to helping me maintain self-control of my sexual urges
    • A willing key holder who has helped me learn to control my non-sexual Behavior
    • A community of others who share their chastity experiences openly that I have and can learn from
    This is just the start. Help me make it a much longer list.
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    With regards to my own chastity journey:

    I am grateful that I now received more compliments from my wife than criticism - this is new territory for us.

    I am grateful for that little buzz I feel every time my wife returns from work. Mostly, she returns without any notion of feeding my chastity induced frustrations but that’s ok.

    I am grateful that through all of this our home life has become more loving and stable.

    I am grateful that our children will grow up seeing two parents loving each other every day.

    I am grateful for the sexual discoveries we have made within each other and the ability to communicate our desires, even if at times it may not have been subject matter we’d want to tell or hear.

    With regards to this community:
    I am grateful I have an outlet for my frustrations

    I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and journey with people who do not judge, and give constructive commentary. I am also grateful for those who will tell me when I’m being a dick.

    I am grateful for the stupid captions I read everyday. I look and these when I’m bored or lacking focus, the instinctive bodily urges without a reasonable outlet really get my mind back on track.

    I am grateful for the unsung heroes like @Stephplayswithyou . The likes on so many of each of our posts are appreciated! Without little signs of support like this I’m sure I, and others would question whether anyone actually needs our posts.

    I am grateful for the variety of content. To be able to see how chastity can play into different aspects of each individuals life.

    With regards to finances:
    I am grateful I will never have to invest money in an alarm clock.

    Finally:
    I am grateful for Motown music.
     
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    I'm grateful for the fascinating, wide variety of folks here (masculinist trolls not included)

    I'm grateful for the kind individuals who openly share, are constructive with feedback, and are willing to be extremely vulnerable by putting themselves out there (here?) -- takes a non-zero amount of figurative and literal balls to do so.

    I'm grateful for the submissive individuals that have been willing to 'bend the knee and hand over their key' to me, and adhere to my firm but clearly non-sadistic guidance. Self-improvement is the name of the chastity game and if you're not growing in all other facets besides girth and hardness, you're doing something wrong!

    Finally, as @IB-Chaste so graciously and appropriately reminded me
    I am also grateful for Motown music. lol
     
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    Thanks @IB-Chaste for the compliment, I don't always chime in, but yes, I do read a fair amount on content out there. I'm grateful for all of you sharing your journeys, to give me hope and inspiration to continue. To work through it, because you guys have helped me understand, this is more than just wearing something and that is what I'm striving to achieve.

    Of course I'll curse all of you that inspired me if I'm ever in a similar boat! J/K lol
     
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    If I wasn't married I would love to have you as my key holder
     
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    I'm grateful for my wife indulging me in all my kinks but mostly for all the amazing things she does for me and our baby
     
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    Lazlo Toth C/D on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale: 9/9

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    Gratitude is a most appealing characteristic to witness in someone. Just reading this thoughtful thread filled me with joy this morning.

    So, forgive me for being glib, but I am grateful for all of you. Male chastity helps make me a better man. And i thank many of you for your indirect—and direct—influence in that regard.
     
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    I’m grateful for my Madam! I never thought I’d ever find a woman that shared my kinks, let alone was even kinkier! She is a dream come true!
     
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    I am grateful to have an understanding keyholder.
    I am grateful for the content feeling i get from being caged.
    And i am grateful to the chastity mansion community for providing a safe space to learn and converse with like minded people.
     
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    All of the above and I am grateful:

    That my wife holds the key and understands the need to keep me denied.
    That she teases me and sends captions
    That after a fight we get back to normal quickly.
    That I really know what love is "I want you to show it"
    For her magic hands
    A beautiful wife
    Great kids
    Emotional maturity, now I can't masturbate away my problems I have to deal with it.
    Tea
    That I enjoy my job
    Weekends
    Walking hand in hand
    Snuggling

    Yeah I don't feel I've done it justice yet. A start!
     
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