Diary: Banding penis as an alternative to chastity

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    Warning: Banding is really dangerous, dont take it lightly, some has take it as a play and end with permanent damage even in the first try, this is not an encouring thread

    I was going to take the info on the "experiment" private but on seconds thoughs it may be useful to somebody in the future so here are the results:

    30 minutes with one band: Not totally numb, duration unknow for now (when it fade i will update the data)



    The idea of the first post it is to be an index of posts and data, i can anwser any question anyone has, feel free to post whatever you want

    Why i did it
    How banding feels and how did it went
     
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    Why i did it?

    I have a really nasty problem, i am addicted to porn and jerking. I realised this 2 years ago and has been trying to solve it. Nothing has worked but i have to keep trying as it is destroying my life, it drains to the sewer, i am a smart guy with good ideas but because i waste hours and hours per day on my habit i dont progress or do anything to upgrade my life, i have to stop that

    Searching for solutions is how i discovered chastity, of course it was though more porn but i saw the potential it may have so i keep looking on it for some time. The purchase moment of the CB6000 big was a wall, i dont take decisions based on emotions so it take a few weeks to push the button. About that time i was lurking here and the same, i didnt join the first moment i landed here but with time i saw that this community was a nice one and sane too so i finally joined

    The CB arrived, i was excited, it didnt last. The cage was too small and too narrow, so tiny that i had to fight to put it on and when done i couldnt even piss, i think i endured 2 hours until it ended in a box on a drawer until now

    This happened with other cages, doesnt matter if it was plastic, metal or any other thing, i have a bigger than average penis so last month after buying 6 or 7 cage in total during year and a half i understand that there has to be a custom one

    I have also tried many other things, hypnosis which didnt work at all, no matter what was the subject as i guess some cant be hypnotized easily, i had tried many hypno creators, some are a scam, others do a decent job but it didnt work with me

    Numbing cream, it "works" but it is far from ideal, it takes time to be absorb by the body, most will still be cream state on the skin so you have to clean it and the effects dont last long, 1 or 2 hours maybe. Not a valid solution

    Honor system, no, i dont have a strong will, i can resist the first 5 minutes but no more. I tried but is by far the worst option

    Virtual mistress in various software, the idea was cool but again no success, some were local, some were online controlled by real people, i dont really care much at this point if it is a male or a female dom, any help i can get it is welcome. The punishements didnt make me think twice, well, maybe they do but i didnt care, the hand always ended joined with the instrument even if knew i shouldnt and more pain will come


    So i decided to take another aproach, a custom 3D one and when i am happy with the results order a more permament model of that, since that happens it will take time and i need a solution until then so that's why i tried with the elastrator, to numb the cock meanwhile, the idea is that it should be a temporary solution, not done on a regular basics among years

    Basically i run out of not extreme ideas so the extreme deserves a try as i need to fix this
     
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    How banding feels? How did it go?

    It is really painful, the more time the band is on the more it hurts

    First i had to overcome my fears, this tool is not a toy and permament damage can happen. I gave my self the last warning two weeks ago, i had the tool, if i dont behave i will have to use which could turn being really bad. Of course, the warning was not the first, before buying i did the same, before researching it more deeply i did the same, all the warnings i gave to my self didnt worked

    So now what happens it is because i deserve, i had many chances to not be forced to do it but no, i cant keep my hand away. My most concerning fear was not being able to cut the band when the time pass, it may look easy but once it buries in the skin is not as easy, i had prepared 7 or 8 tools to cut it, from baby scissors (it has rounded the end so you can push against the skin whitout cutting) to stample remover. I live 10 minutes away from the hospital but i prefer if i could not end in urgencies

    I put the band, release from the tool and in seconds pain arise, it was really quick, before i was able to start the countdown it was hurting badly

    The idea was to watch some science videos as i wait (i enjoy cultural knowledge) and to distract me from the experience. I watched one and dont even know what it was saying, you cant focus with a band in the penis. It has been only 5 minutes and i was starting to shake and to sweat, i was thinking about cutting it but no, i had to endure, i need to because tomorrow is not going to be easier or less painful

    Time was ticking slow, pain was greater every second. At 20 minutes the penis was totally numb so at least it was working, i decided to not cut it because i prefered to be on the safe ground and stick to the plan

    The last 10 minutes was almost unbearable, you cant imagine how much it hurts. Time pass and finally i cut the band, an even greater pain for few seconds and done


    The part of the skin that was in contact with the band is sore and red, after some hours the marks are still there, the penis when the band was about to cut loose was "normal" in the sense that it was not purple or any other non natural color

    Results are meh, it is numb but not totally, i can feel things, not as good as before but in 30 seconds of jerking it went from soft to almost hard, i wasnt looking at porn or thinking anything erotic so it is not totally numb which it is not what i wanted, i will call a 50% success, it worked but not as much as i desired, i still can feel things with it
     
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    Of course, feel free to ask anything

    I was debating about taking media content of the proccess but being the first time i do this i prefered to focus on at least doing it, maybe the next time, i dont know, i dont really want to upload any but if some of you really want to see some content i dont see why not
     
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    I highly recommend wrapping the are where you are going to band with multiple layers of electrical or medical tape. It will help with the surface pain and makes getting the band off easier and with far less pain. Just make sure you are very flaccid when taping and tape pretty tight.

    Some people get better results from doing 2-3 bindings in one day. 20 minutes per banding should be fine with an hour being the max. You can also use a hose clamp but don’t try it without a good layer of tape. You can buy the hose clamps that have the yellow tabs so that you don’t need a tool to tighten. I’ve made myself numb for a week with a clamp.
     
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    Yeah, wrapping could be a good idea, banding maked wounds in the skin that are still present and the penis keep hurting from time to time, i was thinking using oil the next time but if the results are more or less the same i will try with tape. I prefer to not add another variable into the process like the number of layers as it will be harder to get the expected result consistently

    i can assure you i cant do one after another, i could but the skin wouldnt be very happy so doing 2 or 3 in a row is impossible for now, the skin has red lumps, red of blood so i prefer to wait until healed. I cant imagine how extra painful will be putting another session with the skin in the state it was when i cut the band

    Thanks, i take note of the tape
     
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    Well, it didnt last, i will call it one or two days duration, i dont know if i have the 100% back but it is more than enough from going back to the old habits again, if i have to say a number it would be 85% or more, 85% to be on the safe side because for me it feels the same as before

    Not sure about the same because it still has wounds from the band in the skin where it touched that hurts from time to time but if i forget about the pain or discomfort it is pretty close or even equal to what it was before

    It is not what i was expecting, it is too short duration and since the skin it is not ready for another try i will have to wait few days. The good part is that at least it helped, i didnt watched more than 10-15 minutes of adult media per day

    Edit: I was to edit the 1st post to add the duration but i didnt though that the edit option was temporal...
     
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    I use three elastrator rings and put a hose clamp on the elastrator and tighten it properly. the effect is 100%.
     
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    Having a PhD in pharmacy I always get goosebumps reading certain things about banding.

    Everyone involved should know about the risks and always keep them in mind. Knowing for the risks it would be also wise though to reduce them at least to a certain degree.

    Just to make sure I am not misunderstood: This is NO medical advice. And no matter how you would do it, banding can NEVER be completely safe. The following is just some information and tips based on my personal knowledge.

    So what is the effect you are trying to achieve with banding ? Your penis going numb


    How is banding achieving this effect ? By (temporary ?!?) damaging (causing a trauma) your penile dorsal nerve due to pressure

    What are the at least most obious risks: blood clots, some cutting damage by putting too much pressure on an too small area and for the last my most favorite one: necrosis - permanent cell death due to mecanical reasons or due to insufficient oxygen supply.

    Just to make you understand why this is my favorite one reading threads like this. Permanent damage on a cellular level will start not later than 30 minutes after the blood flow is cut !
    So reading about banding for 40 minutes looking for a temporal effect only seems somewhat strange. Maybe you will have no live-threatining issues and given time your penis might feel to you like before, but be assured: There certainly was at least some permanent damage done to your body that could not be repaired - even if you do not realize it !

    So - if it has to be banding - how could you achieve the goal and at the same time at least reduce the risks ?

    1. Don't put elastor band on your penis directly. Put something below that would spread the pressure over at least 0,5mm width. As an alternative use other (rubber)bands that are somewhat wider. That might help reduce the cutting effect.
    2. If you do not want any permanent damage and prevent it as good as possible than stay significantly below 30 minutes. And make sure to support the bloodflow after it by masaging etc. as fast as possible. Be warned though - this might reduce he risk of celldamage due to the lack of oxygen. There can be celldamage though due to mechanical reasons only as well (the pressure of te band itself) though. And especially talking about the nerve-damage you are looking to inflict there will never be a guarantee that the body will always be able to recover from it even for the most part. You can not reduce this risk in any way.
    3. The target of your interest is as said the dorsal nerve while leaving everything else (f.e. blood vessels, carvernous body or urethra) completely unaffected at best. Well...that is not possible. What you could to is trying to center the pressure on the dowsal nerve by putting 2 small round objects below the rubber band where the dorsal nerve is located. In doing so you maximize your effect and could instead reduce the time or reduce the total pressure to reduce the overall risks.

    For those thinking about banding: At least think thrice about it before trying it ! If the term RACK was made for anything, it was made for this.
    For those alredy into it: Hope this helps at least some of you.
     
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    áno, je to pravda, ale nie je to pre mňa dôležité, pretože si chcem odrezať penis počas hry bdsm.
     
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    môj penis je veľký, ale necítim žaluď a nemôžem ejakulovať.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    I csn bound by... can feel it... i know if you cn get near 2k... but i never felt it?
     
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    No clue what you are trying to say.
     
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