Starting orgasm control

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    #1 dommedutchess, Dec 11, 2015
    Hi all, I am haplilly married to my husband, or shoukd I say he is hapilly married to me, and am looking for some help with getting him forced into his cb 6000 and PIV orgasm control.
    He says he wants to be caged but when the time comes he is to aroused and does not want to get locked up. After his release he is no longer interested in being caged, fights it, and is mad that I was not able to cage him before he had a release.
    I am interested in PIV orgasm control to help him be better at pleasing me and the mental caging effect.
    Thank you for any help and ideas uou can give me. He really wants this but he thinks im not taking it seriously. I want to prove him wrong! Actually I have him writing this post while I am enjoying some PIV orgasm control practice right now. I seems to help keep his orgasm at bay to have his hands and mind busy. I liked a post I read here about a sub who was able to pleasure his wife PIV without release at all.

    Dommedutchess
     
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    #2 Mark Owen, Dec 12, 2015
    Cuff him, or restrain him, so he can't escape when you're done with him...
     
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    #3 SubVerity, Dec 12, 2015
    But then he wouldn't be able to write @dommedutchess' dictated posts.

    I love that you made him post here on your behalf while you were taking pleasure of him. :)
     
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    #4 xcitedsisssy, Dec 12, 2015
    Do you have a pair of handcuffs? You really don't need to immobilize him just get one wrist cuffed and tell him you are not going to remove it until he locks his penis up.
     
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    #5 Mark Owen, Dec 12, 2015
    She's supposed to uncuff him once safely locked XD
     
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    #6 guest 2942, Dec 12, 2015
    cuff him, ice him down, lock him up
     
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    #7 filltee, Dec 12, 2015
    Sounds like he prefers the fantasy rather than the reality.

    Give him 2 conditions

    1) Tell him to get himself locked up and give you all the keys tonight.
    2) if he prefers to be unlocked then he is not mention the subject again until he has met condition 1.

    He has 2 choices and you have no more childish indecision to put up with.
     
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    #8 Subeva74, Dec 13, 2015
    I agree. He can escape from almost any device so literally restraining him wil not be the solution. Give him a choice.
     
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    #9 salonslave, Dec 13, 2015
    If he is game to it, do it. Otherwise it is violating him.
    Ss
     
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    #10 inquisitive_boy, Dec 13, 2015
    If he wants you to control him and you have his say so on the issue anyway then why not go ahead and just get it on him. Maybe while sleeping or tied up like others recommended. Ice does work wonders as would just leaving him tied while you wait for your moment.

    Once its on its a great time to discuss its continued use and the term of release and piv.

    Obviously your satisfaction during release is important to you as it should be to him and a discussion on this to reiterate your expectations of piv might help hold him off climaxing ahead of you thus saving him some time in his cage for good behavior maybe ?
     
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