This weekend my wife is putting a collar on me. It's designed to look normal enough that I can wear it all the time and because it locks on I expect to be wearing it permanently. She's made it clear that's what's going to happen. We already have a relationship that's strongly female led (but not all the time). She has my chastity cage on order, so that's coming up too. I have told her that I exist to serve and please her. What more should I be doing once I am collared?
She is correct! Take it slow and jus t obey Her without arguing or questioning Her and see where that takes you after a week and then tell us!
I got my collar last week. It and the lock are 100% stainless steel so it will only come off for medical reasons. Like the cage, She has the key!
Nice look. Noticeable but still looks enough like a necklace to not draw unwanted stares. Just a question, if you don't mind answering. What will you say if some asks why you are wearing it or if it has any special significance?
It’s been on for a little over 2 weeks now. For the most part it’s just melted into the background. It reflects what our relationship is. It didn’t create it. Although, sometimes I will become aware of it around my neck as the tag moves or whatever. Remembering it’s there is very calming for me, because it reminds me there’s a woman that cares enough to possess me like this. The only time the reason for it being there has come up was during a hair appointment. I was getting the back of my neck shaved the stylist asked if I wanted to take it off. I said I couldn’t. She asked if it was a medical necklace. I just pointed out the combination lock and said I don’t have the combination. My wife put it on and won’t tell me. The stylist thought that it was “so sweet” It was just June. An explosion of rainbow flags and an entire parade about homosexuality, which is fine, but It seems incongruous that something like that could March through the middle of town but a collar is scandalous. lol I’ll tell anyone who asks a direct question. It’s 2019. If someone gets their panties in a twist about how my wife an I choose to express our love, that’s their problem, not mine.
Sounds like you handled it correctly and perhaps one day the rainbow might include those that commit to someone else in a way that society has not deemed proper, yet.
So far as I am concerned, it does. Those 'under the rainbow' includes everybody who does not try to impose their judgemental prejudices on others. As a well-educated, cishet Dom man I have almost the full set of privileges, and often taken for somebody folk can presume to accept the status quo. However, I am wholly supportive of the rights of all women, sex workers, lesbian, bisexual, homosexual, trans and intersex folk, and every other unconventional minority. Except of course, homophobes, transphobes, TERFs, SWERFs, 'Gener Critical feminists' and all the other haters on the right, and sometimes the left too.
mine has a neck lace a little bigger but the padlock doesn't seem to be one (it is with a heart and Her letter engraved on the gold) i try to hide it whit my suits also : when someone ask me for what it is (happened twice) i just answer : "a necklace" and that's enough for who was speaking and for the rear : nothing when going to the hair shop