How many here are locked by their KH's to keep their orgasms exclusively for intercourse with them and how many are locked with their KH's plan being to make sure the sub never has sex again? When we started, I believe the plan was to keep me horny until intercourse but now it's almost certain that She will have no intention of ever releasing me, especially not for sex.
I’m locked to keep my orgasms for my Wife, when she does let me out it usually ends up being for a day or two in which time I’m drained to the point where I’m sore, dry, in pain and deriving no pleasure at all from it...... I am so ready to be locked again, BUT I’m not allowed to beg for it. I promise you, other than to clean and shave I have NO interest in touching my genitalia
Initially it was to keep me horny and ready whenever D required PIV sex. Now after many years it's purely an FLR where D has the orgasms and I am no longer permitted.
We actually stopped having penetrative sex almost two years ago. We started caging just under one month ago to reduce his frequency of orgasms through masturbation, and to prevent erections.
Exclusive. I now rely on her completely for any release. I love how much closer I feel to her as a result. Since abstaining from any self-pleasure, I have found we have more frequent encounters than before. Also, I appreciate intimate, non-sex moments such as sitting together, hugging, and snuggling more
I'm in chastity to stop my masturbation and to assure that my libido is directed solely into my marriage. We're both too sexual to stop, but I've admitted I need her control to achieve the intimacy we both desire.
I’m kind of in between here, I am locked 24/7 and am not permitted any intercorse with my madam, she only has sex with her bull. But I am permitted anal stimulation with her permission, and also madam will peg me and use toys on my ass, just no penile stimulation or contact.
Responsible opposing opinion here: Mrs Edge and I always end up p[laying for long terms. Since she actually does enjoy both the idea of keeping me locked up, and PIV, she prefers that I wear a strapon. In our way of thinking, we're both having plenty of sex -- in fact, more than we used to 10 or 20 years ago.
PIV stopped a few years ago because of my Wife(KH) age. It hurt her and she didn't enjoy it anymore. We still masturbated and did oral for our orgasms. My Wife(KH) just enjoys having control over me and my orgasms. Sometimes she makes me cum after two weeks of being locked. Sometimes it's a lot longer. She will tie me up, tease me for awhile, then unlock the cage, make me cum, then lock me up again until she want to see me cum again. She teases me by telling me she needs to see and touch my erection. And that she wants to have my penis in her mouth. Sometimes it just talk, but it keeps me guessing what will happening. So I'm locked for my Wife(KH) pleasure. It's not for PIV and I'm not sexless, I guess. My sex now is a ruined orgasm when she feels like it...And I look forward to whatever she allows me to have...
Locked to keep orgasms only for her. Without my uncontrollable jerking anymore it has also made us a lot closer with being closer including cuddling and back rubs. My mood is better and focused more on her which has resulted in more intercourse than we ever previously had.
My wife has made it clear I will never have sex again. And she has stuck to that. We had PIV sex once in the last 2-3 years, and that was over 400 days ago. But I'm not completely denied orgasms. I am unlocked periodically and allowed to masturbate, sometimes with specific orders about how, to what, having to ruin it, etc. Ive come to understand that she will only touch my penis when it is locked, for teasing, which she very much enjoys. If I am very lucky she might allow me to masturbate in her presence. I very much enjoy that!
same for me She likes to hang my penis, She likes to have it in Her mouth i'm locked not to touch myself, not to be tempted for another woman. the more She teases me, the more i want to be locked
I think I am in the exclusive camp. We are less than 6 weeks new into this. I got PIV on the first week and have been used for PIV once since. The odd thing is I feel closer and more loving and intimate towards her.
This morning, after my Wife(KH) allowed me to dry hump her bum for 10 minutes, she got up and unlocked me and said I could have an orgasm. She was licking & sucking my balls and I guess I was enjoying it and taking too long. She just stopped handed me back the cage and told me to lock it back up. By this time I was leaking and so close...She watched me lock myself back up and said maybe next time I won't try to enjoy it as much and just take what she gives me...A quick, ruined orgasm...
Two nights ago in bed with my Wife She teased my cage with Her hand then turned and pushed Her butt into it and I humped Her with my cage, She could tell by my moaning and grunting I was desperate. I begged Her to let me give Her oral sex, She said "it's too late for all that now. Time for sleep"
I have not been allowed PIV sex with my wife in over 15 years. Mostly just denied sometimes in chastity. My only relief has been jerking off. Just before being locked up I was enjoying using our DrHo TENS unit to force an ejaculation. I was really enjoying that. It was intense! I am missing it these days like I used to miss blow jobs and fucking. Just over 3 weeks in new device and am hoping for a Real Long period of no ejaculations what so ever. Loving the conflict of wanting to cum so bad and the desire to remain unsatisfied and horny. My wife has had no interest in my orgasms for years so I may get what I wish.