Orgasm denial for my submissive

Male or female, this is the eternal question! It’s what works for you!

 

Sounds like you are new to this . So right now this is a learning experience for both. Start with a week and go from there. You can always adjust the time of lock up for whatever works best for you . Good luck and have fun on the journey .

 

Talk to her about it.

Ask her "How long is too long?"

Use that as a starting point and expand from there.

Iso.

 

Start low, build up

 

My wife tried this once. Role reversal for a few days. It's been about three years.

She could only stand it for about 4 days, until she started to rub herself so horny that she came to orgasm. However, I have also regularly heated her with toys and tongue!

But when you get someone really hot, he/she doesn't last long, we didn't try again after that because she didn't find it particularly entertaining to conserve her horniness.

Therefore, I cannot give you any further information. Note: We have also done this without a belt!

 

Like any denial dance, it has to be a balance between what Dom wants and what sub can accept, no matter which gender is in what role.

 

My humble opinion is that orgasm denial is too stressful and frustrating for most women.