I've been thinking about, once I get a good snug fit and all that, just throwing away the key, or giving it to someone who will most definitely not give it back. Has anyone done anything like that before? I have never been in chastity before and I think it might be a good way to start.
You think a good way to start something you've not tried very much of is to do it full time forever? I like your confidence but there are many reasons to take a cage off. Temporary abrasions, a good solid cleaning, minor to major irritations, not to mention doctors visits. Yes you could let him in on your kink, but unless your affliction is cage related it's just in poor taste to invite others into that. Not to mention that I would imagine that with no hope of release ever, some of the thrill might go away. I hope you take it step by step, and ease into the hot tub. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Good luck
No release ever? Well, what about anal? I suppose if I developed an irritation of some kind I could go pick it up so I could unlock for the doctor and it looks like you can clean pretty much completely with the Jailbird and I think the length of time would just further the thrill. I'm going to see if I can find any stories of people who have done this before and if I do I will post them here.
I really wasn't talking about orgasms, I meant just being uncaged. I have a jailbird, as well as a few other devices, although easy to wear long term, does require an occasional cleaning. I can't really describe the funk that accumulates, but it does. Hope ya find what you're looking for
I have a hair dryer, it's not a moisture issue, it's just that you can't possibly reach or rub off the skin, lube, and lotion that gets between you and your cage. It's not an everyday need, but after 2 to 3 weeks, it a welcome treat.
Drop the keys in to a plastic cola bottle. Fill it with water and freeze it. Now you have a safe and secure set of keys that in an emergency can be defrosted... eventually. We dont play totally fulltime and I can tell you after only a few days there is gunk in the crevices that showering and scrubbing cant fully get past our own flesh thats in the way. Its mostly dead skin cells with maybe a little lotion thrown in ( just like common house hold dust is mostly dead skin cells.)
What you are asking about is the stuff of fantasy. There will be times when you need a key. In fantasies we do not think about the unexpected happening. Take it from someone into chastity for a few years and has been rushed to the hospital for emergency surgery where every minute counted, that an emergency key could be a life save. No one plans for the things they never think of. Try having one ball trapped and feeling like someone is squeezing it and not having a key. Chaffing, infections, etc.. When I hear talk about no key, that is a red flag for fantasy play which is not safe and sane play which we have been practicing for the last 44 years.
You need to be sure you have a good fit first and will have no problem with, 24/7. After that, best if you have a KH who'll do the needful for you.
Unless you have some experience and preparation, I don't think throwing away the key for long term confinement is probably a realistic idea when just starting out, as others have tried to imply here. The psychological demands and changes take time to adjust to, same as the body taking some time to adapt to wearing a chastity device. Things take time and changes take place. Once you realize this, then fantasy becomes a bit more of reality. lol... However, many are not aware of this when just beginning this process.
Never throw the key away! I have a CB6000S and all went well for three weeks of 24/7. During the fourth week I started to feel a burning sensation in several places. After removing the cage I had several abrasions that really hurt. I have not been locked for a couple of weeks and everything has healed. Had I not removed the cage and cared for the abrasions I'm pretty sure a infection would have occurred.
Always have a way out in case of emergency. I have a MM JailBird and it is not that easy to keep clean for long period of time. I once had problem with continuously wearing the cage for 5 weeks and I had a bad rash. I now know that I have to get out of it at least every 4 weeks for checkup and cleaning. It is not because you are out the cage that you can have an orgasm. Take it off, check if everything is ok, clean it and put it back on. When I was with a remote KH, My key where in a safe but it had temper evident tape on it. When she was asking for a verification picture, I had to show that the seal was not broken. Breaking the seal without a good reason would have been the end of the relationship.
All sorts of problems can come up. You always need a way to get out. It is really about balancing the speed, effort, and consequence that is right for you. Now, you could throw away the key to a plastic device and carry a tool that will break you out. Then the cost and consequence is a ruined device.