I have some good news. My wife and I both miss my chastity. We found a way to continue in chastity but in a different way. We are going to combine ruined orgasms with orgasm denial. I will have to make a solemn promise to not masturbate while unlocked as a commitment of love to my wife. Just to be safe though, I will be locked up when I appear too needy for sex, right after a ruined or no orgasm for at least a day and 2-3 days before out next planned sex session. In this way I can avoid wearing my Jailbird 24/7, which my old skin cannot take anymore. My wife missed the control she had over me and I missed the constant feeling of sexual arousal. Also, while in the past, eating my own semen was a once in a while thing. It will now be mandatory after a ruined orgasm. If I do not eat all of it, no sex for two weeks. If I refuse again, no sex for three weeks. You get the picture. My wife is hoping that when given the option of a ruined orgasm or none, I will chose none rather than eat my cum. Time will tell but it will also be a substitute as a symbol of the power exchange between us instead of the chastity cage. Once we stopped chastity I stopped washing the dishes and massaging my wife's feet. Worst of all I started to masturbate again which I had not done in a very long time. Not just masturbate but do it a lot to make up for lost time. It started to interfere with my life again so I want to be controlled again.