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    okay question for everyone (kh/lockie)

    what is the number one reason you personal decidce to get into chastity?
     
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    Hello Ma'am and welcome to the Mansion. For me it was to curtail my chronic masturbation way back when. Unfortunately, my ex wasn't the least bit enthusiastic about exploring it with me.
     
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    Hello sir .... that is understandable.... gain control... and building yourself better
     
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    submission
     
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    MistressFionas Keys for heart and chastity

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    Because my Mistress/wife requires that I am in chastity. It was a condition for us to start dating.
     
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    My interest was a kink. Saw a device and the idea turned me on. Asked my wife to hold the keys and she was reluctant but has stated that she likes me better when i'm locked.
     
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    Hello Mistress B. I always thought there is something magical, mystical and breathtaking in giving control of my own urges, will and body to a Dominant. It made sense to me as the next order of things since i believe in Female Superiority.
     
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    Because the full cyborg suit was too difficult to make. Start small and work up
     
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    Controlling my orgasms so i focus only on my wife not porn, or self pleasuring.
    and when i am released and allowed to cum, it is so much better.
    the penis is far more sensitive. and it has opened a lot of discussions about other kinks and her taking charge of our sex life. as she put it. "chastity allows me to be more at ease regarding sex as there are no expectations other than what i want to do on any given day"
     
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    thank you all gentelmen..... i like all your answers.... thank you for answering my question
     
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    The way it feels when wearing it, the slightest movement in the cage and you know its doing its job...
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I started chastity because I wanted to stop the confusion of too little sex or too much, in the mood not in the mood, did she want me to initiate sex or was she just trying to be intimate.

    Taking the pressure off that decision and giving it to her meant that I was never wrong, because I wasn’t making that decision anymore. Her condition of being my kh, was that she didn’t want to do this halfway...meaning either she was in control and I was her submissive, or she was giving the key back. So it kind of blossomed into more than just chastity after that.
     
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    i think thats how @jb123 and i are doing it.... im not sure yet
     
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    Breathe Be true to yourself

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    Chastity was a pretty natural addition to our T&D relationship. I brought it into our lives to provide an additional element to our D/s dynamic ... But I was pleasantly surprised how much intimacy it invited into our marriage.

    That's the main reason I'm keeping it. :love::lock:
     
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    Allen1987 All for Her

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    I started it to show that She would always be the only one. It progressed into She made sure I
    was the only one and whatever She wants She gets. Sounds a little dominating doesn't it? lol
    Wouldn't have it any other way.:love::lock::+1:
     
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    no. 1 reason? That continual heightened feeling of desire that is never allowed to go. Being confined is the only way I can resist the temptation of masturbation and intercourse which only gives momentary pleasure, the chaste alternative is continual pleasure. It also heightens my feelings for and of my wife, I'm much more aware of her pleasures too.
     
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    We were doing chastity on the honor system until it became obvious that I had been "dishonorable", so the cage was ordered and installed to eliminate my wanking and thus saving myself for Her.
     
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    We found it TTTWD was a 'thing' together and both thought we'd like to try it so we did.
     
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    My wife had me in panties for a long time when I discovered this site and chastity. She liked the idea, and it seemed reasonable for her to lock it up since she wasn't interested in PIV.
     
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    1.Manage my depression without medications and it gives me goals from converted energy to be an even better person

    2.Enhance Intimacy with my partner. It’s starting to work.
     
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    Our #1 reason is to make sure 100% of the attention is on her wants & needs 100% the time.
     
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    The primary reason was mine and my partner's curiosity. I wanted to explore my submissive side and she wanted to explore her dominant side. And now here we are.
     
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    I'm not technically into Chastity. It's about a girl.
     
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    You always have the perfect posts, Breathe. You're a good egg.
     
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    As a closet 'lion tamer' it is about the feeling. Knowing something that those around you don't; particularly when in a really formal situation.
    Wondering if one day 'roaming hands' might discover your secret and what you would do if he or she did.
    The feeling after a few days that your cock does not exist; once its out of reach it ceases to feel anything.
    The thoughts that start to form in your hear about various 'permanent solutions' for two veg or the meat itself.
    The way your plums start to take all the action from abrasion, swelling etc. etc.
    The thought that one day you might beat your personal best.
     
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