I love us. I am a man (husband) in a 24 - 7 TPE wife led marriage. This lifestyle has changed our lives and marriage for the better. We lived a typical patriarchal style relationship for 17 years where she tolerated my patriarchal attitude, selfish desires and lack of concern for anyone else's feelings. I was just going by what society taught me was the way it was. I wanted us to be happy and sought to make changes in myself and our marriage to try and save what frankly I had broken over many years of selfishness, laziness and neglect. I among numerous poor behaviors had a bad porn and masturbation habit. Originally, I was exploring enforced male chastity as a means to purify myself sexually to her and came across the F. L .R. / W.LM. lifestyles in forums and articles. The idea of being submissive intrigued me and I brought it up to my wife. At first she was reluctant. I really think she doubted my resolve to live this out fully. We dabbled in the lifestyle for a few months and then started to lay the foundation, standards and motivation for improving on what we had already built. From the beginning we noticed the changes in our relationship for the better. Her full ascension to power was on 11/2/2019. On that day I as the knight signed a pledge to her as the authority (The Queen) and me as (the knight) her devoted servant, protector and pledged to alway bring her joy. The pledge is based in 4 main principles, Behavior (my actions and behavior are a testament to my betrothal to The Queen), Obedience (The word of The Queen is final), Submission (I am to be used in anyway. i gave myself fully her and her joy) and Service (I serve without expectation) (B.O.S.S.) of course the pledge goes a lot deeper into the detail of the foundation but these are the tenants. I do all the chores, house work and other duties that she does not want to do. All services I perform for The Queen are done to Her complete joy and down to exact detail. (any service I do is not considered helpful or useful unless it is completed to her complete joy) I gave her the greatest gift that I could give anyone. My pledge and goal is to bring her complete, confidence, satisfaction, comfort and above all joy in everything I do. Above all any of her desires are executed immediately without, hesitation, comment or discussion. Sexually I am at her whim. I am in an assigned enforced male chastity program on the honor system. My chastity includes: zero porn, zero masturbation, zero orgasm and I am to keep groomed, physically fit, healthy, ready and willing to perform to her desire at all times. My personal sexual gratification, releases and desires are in her complete control. I am totally beholden to The Queen. I cannot, ask, beg or bargain for anything. All of my behaviors, transgressions and actions are transparent at all times and are reported to Her immediately verbally, in my daily journal and logged into charts that track, diet, disciplinary infractions / consequences, sex, health, vitals and my enforced chastity terms. This may all seem very strict and controlling but this is what works for us. It frees me up to truly dedicate my time and energy to serve her and live my pledge completely. I can come home from a day of organizing others, making choices, decisions and negotiations to one of structure, formality and freedom from being in charge. This has changed our marriage completely. I cannot remember the last time we had an argument, There is no fighting. If I have a question about a decision she's made , direction I am given or anything. I can request a private audience, explain my position clearly, respectfully and with emotional intelligence and then await her decision which as part of the B.O.S.S. in the final word. I would love to connect to other and learn of their journey. We are always seeking new concepts and ideas to this lifestyle.
Wow.. what a way to put it.. and a sudden change. A queen in charged… half the battle is won. You are like a eunuch serving at her palace court.. you have given up everything… for nothing. How does a queen being satisfied sexually if i may ask..? My deepest apologies, my majesty.. wrong words (slapping my own cheeks).
That sounds wonderful. Perhaps when you want to write a lot consider using paragraphs. Walls of text are very heard to digest for most people, and so most people simply won't bother reading it.
That's funny The Queen is very into Tudor 1500's royal history. And yes we do treat this as Her Royal court. I am Hers to be used however she sees fit. If that is as if I am a eunuch then so be it. I can tell you that I satisfy her ever desire. I won't kiss and tell if that is what you are looking for but the chastity makes me sexually pure, as any thought, fantasy, desire that I have is directed at and through her. We use that energy to train my habits and behaviors for the better. We use denial and edging to train me in seamen retention and ejaculation control. It makes for mind blowing, intimate and satisfying experiences for us both. Believe me when I say that this is all my choice. I gave her the gift of my submission and dedicate my effort, energy and time to Her... I have given up only what was causing strife in my life and have gained a lot form giving myself and serving another. There is great freedom from submission.
Dont worry.. most of us like to kiss and broadcast… in very graphical details. Just be mindful of your queen’s guillotine.