So far dodged some bullets, but...

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  1. SubSnuggler
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    So my Wife has been quietly working an angle on me. And that is making me cum in my cage. She wants to see it SO BAD.

    She tried with a vibrator...and I came close...but no orgasm. She tried it every which way. In fact, she spent like maybe 20 minutes trying to get me off. She could give a shit if I come, so this is a significant time investment for her.

    Then she tried a few hand techniques in different scenes, but no dice.

    This morning as I was doing our morning shower (I wash and shampoo her most every morning, head to toe) she noticed I was aroused... as I am most mornings. I mean, kneeling in the shower while washing your Wife's magnificent bare legs and shaved... well, it usually puts me at half mast!

    So she turns to me, and says, "Stand up. Get yourself hard. Now."

    I start to furiously get as much of my shaft clean with soap as I can (I'm secured by a PA device, not a ball trap). In moments I'm OH SO CLOSE but just can't get there. The soap gives just the right amount of lube, and by letting me touch myself, she knows I can give just the amount of stimulation my feverish sub cock needs. She stands watching me, hands on hips, pink hair flowing around her breasts, her nipples with cute soap bubbles. She's totally silent.

    I get close. Mistress, may I cum? I tentatively ask. She says, "Yes, I would like to see you cum in your cage if you can."

    I am going at it furiously but the marvelously sensitive head of my cock is covered in stainless steel. I can only stroke an inch, maybe two, of my penis before it vanishes into the cage. I can't cum.

    I admit defeat.

    Later I mention to her that I was SO CLOSE, that just talking dirty to me probably would've worked. A smirk and a smile crossed her face. "Oh, really? Now THAT is good to know."

    I return to my chores and suddenly I realize something.

    If I cum in that cage, she might never let me out again. The more uncomfortable, the more miserable she can make my releases, is exactly what she loves the most. And she's chasing a new goal, and she has realized it just might be obtainable. I helped her crack the code. And now, she's that much closer to finding the Rosetta stone to getting my cock to spurt while still locked away in chastity. Using keys is just so fussy and time consuming.

    I'm fucked. Send help. :)
     
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    I think you mean you're "not fucked" ... ever again.

    Good luck! Stay horny!
     
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    Good luck. Not sure what the ideal outcome is here but I hope it works out for you!
     
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    My advice after looking at your pictures.

    You need a smaller diameter cage. I found with the smaller diameter cage my penis will bulge threw allowing enough stimulation to get the job done if that is the goal.
     
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    20 minutes with vibrator and nothing? Wow. It takes a couple of minutes and a magic wand to cum in my HolyTrainer
     
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    BR can't cum with a vibrator either. Yes a little desperation, some dirty talk about another man and a little hand humping does the trick. Best wishes :love:
     
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    Good luck on your endeavour! I’m sure you will get there eventually!
     
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    A TENS unit would probably work. Very intense though, painful even. Might not want to inform your wife.
     
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    One week caged and a Hitachi Magic Wand placed on the bottom side of the cage works wonders. This works if I am lying on my back, standing stretched out into a human X, or stuck bent over in a Pillory. Now if its the third or forth time in a day she does this to me, at my age it becomes more torture then getting results. I think that is more age related not being able to cum that many times, but drives me more insane than providing an orgasm.
     
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    My KH has two keys. One for my cage, the other through the prong of the magic wand. The latter gets used almost weekly, but I haven't seen the former in months.

    For me it's not the same as a "full" orgasm, but it takes the edge off without as much "drop", so my KH greatly prefers it. It's also very quick and easy for her.

    I snap a little 3D printed cap over the end of my jailbird (flexible filament), so it doesn't even make a mess.
     
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    I think you can get there, keep trying, as the excitement is in the game. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Your wife / keyholder is a woman after my own heart. I get great satisfaction from the visual image of PK ejaculating in his cage. Keeping in mind most of these sessions result in only a ruined orgasm or an edging pre seminal (tears) release. I must admit however the rare full force ejaculation is the most stimulating.

    What I didn't realize was there was a period of time needed to train him to release in his device. I learned this from chatting with another verified female keyholder here at CM.

    Like you, with the use of a Hitachi Magic Wand, he would reach a threshold but couldn't get past it. So the training program began. Sessions were every other night and I made mental notes of what technique was working and what was not. Eight weeks into it, his first pre cum fluid dribbled out the end of his cage. Another three weeks later and PK finally exploded a full orgasm from within his cage. I believe it was one of the most intense orgasms he has ever had. I was so happy, excited, thrilled and proud of my accomplishment. I giggled like a little girl for hours.

    (didn't you mean, her cage?)

    And that there is exactly the the point. Minimize the number of times the device is removed. Plus now I don't have to use a lubricant on my hand and clean up for me is next to nothing. PK takes a shower, changes the bedding if soiled and puts the wand away. Easy peasy

    I wish your wife success in her endeavors. I'll bet she will enjoy every moment of the adventure and what the future may hold.
     
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    Tried plenty of times to cum in my cage, but never been succesful
     
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    A vibrator by itself has never worked for me
     
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    I can cum in my cage by anal stimulation.
    Once my GF discovered that it’s hard to find an excuse to remove the cage.

    maje loves to ruin my orgasm and the cum going through the cage.
     
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    I have never managed it while caged!
     
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    The first time I have EVER managed to orgasm while wearing a cage was just a few weeks ago, while wearing my Mousetrap. The orgasm was (mostly) mentally induced. Let me explain.

    I hadn't had any form of Orgasm in more than a month
    I had been wearing an anal plug for hours, but was not wearing it at the time.
    I was READING an erotic story that I was REALLY into.
    I noticed that despite wearing my Mousetrap (which normally discourages erections) that I was rock hard.
    I grabbed the tube gently between my thumb and index finger (I did not tug, or stroke, or even have a sensation of physical touch)
    As soon as I grabbed my cage, I exploded, I sent multiple thick ropes across the room (I haven't done that since I was a teenager)

    This was obviously not the Anal Orgasm I have been hoping/trying for, nor was it even technically hands free, but it was certainly caged. ...and more intense than anything I have had in a LONG time

    I'm a little confused on how to classify this one, ...Mental Orgasm?
     
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    I've used our Doxy wand on the underside of one of my cages, so that it stimulated the glans / frenulum and balls at the same time. It resulted in my first ruined orgasm, I stopped short of an orgasm but still leaked some fluid. Found it quite an interesting experience. Other times though, I find the wand almost annoying, it bounces and rattles the cage, but thats about it.

    So much comes down to the mental side of things and allowing your brain to be rewired as to what constitutes pleasure and then letting that pleasure build to an orgasm. Maybe taking away direct penile pleasure is the male equivalent of having to learn how to have an orgasm much like some (many) females have to learn what works for them.
     
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