Curious what everyone's keyholder allows as far as release? Since the beginning of the year, I've only had one or two full on orgasms. My wife doesn't seem real keen on me doing that much anymore, we've both noticed how I'm low for days after a full release. After we have sex, I basically get locked back up and do my prostate massager or a butt plug. If I'm lucky, she'll help me out with her vibrator, but sometimes not. Interested in hearing what others do.
I'm sort of stuck in that I have Crohn's disease, and prostate massagers just aren't an option. I get very run down if I cum more than maybe twice a month, which is a big part of why we started doing denial and chastity, and is probably due to having several surgeries and poor absorption leaving me deficient. So, with that said.... The usual method is me on my knees fapping, while she reads a book and tells me what a gross habit this is. I am very good at separating orgasm from ejaculation, so dropping the orgasm is required. If I can't empty, some sort of bdsm gets involved till I either do, or miss my chance. We've been experimenting with e-stim. that's worked a bit, but I haven't had much luck emptying while in chastity.
My previous owner liked timed attempts...I would be given a certain amount of time to orgasm...usually under three minutes. Most of the time I would be handicapped in some form...hands tied behind my back and allowed to hump a pillow, only allowed to rub against her leg, etc. Since I was usually allowed a chance every few months I could normally get an O.
Once every month or two she will let me finish in her. After one of our lovemaking sessions with strapon or wand, she sometimes gets riled up enough to let me finish after she’s done. Awhile back she used to have fun by using time. Having to last two minutes (I never could), or I have to finish in one min (always could). But since the outcome was so predictable, I think she lost interest in the games. So now it’s usually a little romp after she’s had her fill.
My wife uses her magic wand on me or I'm instructed to masturbate on her body and eat it. They are few and far apart so I'm good to go anything she allows it! The wand is a powerful tool and will get you cumming very quickly.
We have multiple tease sessions every day...I rub little willy on her pussy and ass until I can't take it any more. Sometimes she will say "spoil it for me". A couple of more rubs on her pussy and ass and I just lay little willy at the top of her pussy and wait for the cum to dribble out and run down her pussy and on to her ass, leaving me a nice cream pie to eat.
She is worshipped and pleasured whenever she wants. I am unlocked and permitted an erection 2-3x per month (except Locktober). I am rarely permitted to spurt, about 4x per year.
My KH just has me cum when I am out of town travelling...I have been given permission for this type of release twice this year. While we are together she does not permit it but we have had PIV twice this year (only once with full release).
I get PIV often (whenever I'm allowed to take my Viagra), but never a full blown orgasm. She says I get moody and lazy.
My KH straps her gurl to a heavy bondage chair while full dressed in a mini skirt, heels, tight top, wig, and of course in my chastity device. The soles of the gurl’s pumps are attached to the horizontal cross member of the chair with strong strap, a line is run to the upper cross member of the chair and back to a strong leather belt that is around the gurl’s legs above the knees, the line is pulled tight so her feet point downward and her legs are pressed tightly together, and her balls and clitty are set in full view. My KH ties the gurl’s arms and hands along the back of the chair. It this position she is unable to move her body and legs. The KH removes her gurl’s chastity device and installs TENS pads around the shaft and uses a thin insulating material (plastic wrap) to insulate the two pads on the shaft from the metal of the device. Two more pads are attached to the device. After the wires are connected the KH uses the power unit to stimulate her helpless gurl into forced orgasm. After all is done, the pads are removed and the slave gurl is ready for service in any way the KH sees fit.
Sounds like fun, I would love to watch. You have a wonderful KH. Like your avatar...wonder if anyone else knows what it is.
My KH loves PIV too much to deny me and I’m good with that. I always ask permission to shoot in her and she always says yes but told I have to clean it up. I wear a cage 24/7 except for when she wants to use it.
So what does this feel like? Is it a 'ruined' orgasm where by you release your semen but don't get the pleasure of a proper orgasm or is it a full orgasm with all the satisfaction of that kind of release?
You're one of the lucky ones if your wife allows PIV sex!. Staying locked up until she needs to use you is awesome.
Again, there is no right or wrong, and every couple's favorites will vary. I gat unlocked for an orgasm once every 1-2 months. Most often, I am allowed to jerk off while she watches, which she gets a kick out of. Every once in a while (0nce this year) she will do the honors and give me a hand job. If she's really in a good mood, its a blow job. (the last one of those was November, 2017-not that I'm keeping track, LOL) She decided a year or so ago that we were done with PIV. We have 6 kids (yes, I'm the father of all of them) and all were born vaginally. As a result, her vagina can accommodate a significant volume. At one time I was pretty big and could satisfy her. But not anymore. Between age, weight gain, medications and being locked for a year, I seem to have lost a fair amount of size, and barely get halfway hard before cumming. So I can't possibly satisfy her with my cock anymore, and haven't for several years. For that and other reasons, we had lost interest in sex and intimacy, until stumbling on chastity while looking for something to spice things up. Now, I pleasure her with my mouth or hands or both almost every night. We also have a vibrator which turns her on, and a strap on that I can wear. She has even started wearing the strap on and takes me with it. I've worked up to taking 8 inches "balls deep" as they say, and she gets a kick out of that, too. So our sex life is greatly improved since I was locked, although I only cum every month or two.
She lets me unlock while she's out the house and get off. Doesn't want to hear about it. Not an option at the moment, though...