Wicked Garden

You can read how this got started in my intro thread "Oh boy, I hope I know what I am doing..."

A little about me, I'm a big biker looking fellow. Most people see me and comment on how they were worried I would murder them, grind their bones to make my bread etc. etc. While inside my head I'm usually thinking about Star Wars or Iron Man. I have a beautiful wife of seven years and we have two kids.

Growing up in the family business meant that I have always been a manager of some sort. (A position I have never enjoyed.) for me, that's always been a pain in the ass. I just like to work and be left to my own devices. I have also always been a little submissive in the bedroom.

I think it started with my first gf, I was 21 and still a virgin. She was 19 and anything but. When we finally did the deed, she made me eat my mess after. This was in the early 90's (I'm 46 now) I had never thought about such a thing. But it was her kink. She loved making out with me after a blowjob, having me cum on her boobs or butt and lick it off and of course I ate a lot of creampies. I got used to it. She would call me and whisper in the phone about what we would do that night and that she hopped I was hungry. We were only together a year (I think once I was broken in, I was no longer fun.) but the kink certainly stayed with me. Some girls were into it, others not at all. My wife now is ok with it. She knows it's my thing and plays along.

Cut to now. My wife is not dominate or submissive, she likes sex once and a while, but it's not the same level as me. I can have sex three times a day and then jerk off a few times after that. My normal day would start with me masturbating one to three times in the morning after my wife left for work. Weekends we would have sex usually twice. Maybe once. It would just depend. About two years ago I was looking at creampie porn and noticed a cock cage and was immediately curious, after a few days on the googles I knew I wanted to be caged. But, I was afraid my wife would react badly. I just buried it in the back of my head and moved on.

More recently I have been gaining weight and dealing with down feelings. I have not been feeling very sexy and our sex life was beginning to feel like it was a chore. I can't climax if I feel like my wife was not into it, so a lot of sessions ended with me jerking off to climax. I finally decided to broach the subject with my wife. So with my heart pounding, I sent her this email -

First off. I love you. So much it hurts sometimes. I have something I want to talk to you about tonight. I know you will have questions. I know you will think it is weird. But I want to talk about getting me a chastity device.

I need to release some control to you so that I don't feel as much pressure and anxiously about our sexlife. I feel like I have two sex lives. One when you're here and one when you're not and that's making me feel bad. I just want you. And only you.

You've always been so great about trying new things. Don't think I haven't appreciated it. There's a lot to this and it's going to involve you taking the lead a bit more.

If it's ok with you, I would love to have you get totally naked and cuddle with me and we can talk about this tonight.

If you say "No, I'm not into this." I will be totally ok with it as it can only work if we both do it together.

I love you.

You can text me a response. I just didn't want this to preview on your screen.

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She texted me that we could talk about it that night. She didn't think I could do chastity, "You'll explode" and that she was worried I would be cranky all the time. I told her I thought it would help me relax and stop worrying about if she was into having sex at any one time. Since the only time we would have sex would be when she said we could. She said we could give it a try. Then asked if I would like an orgasam? I came on her breasts and then cleaned her with my tongue. We went to sleep cuddling.

Next chapter: Amazon One Day Shipping.

 

Amazon is an amazing thing. I had already done my research. I asked if my wife would like to help me pick out my cage, and got a raised eyebrow and a firm "No." so I was on my own. I chose a Rikers device for $65 it had good overall reviews and seemed like a good compromise to the more expensive CB6k. When I saw the "This item can be delivered by 9pm today for Prime members." I was sold! *CLICK* chastity cage on the way.



Well, that sucker showed up at 8pm. We put the kids to bed and took a look.

Wife - Well, that's a thing alright. Is it going to fit you?

Me - I think so, I took a string a measured my balls and penis when it was soft.

Wife - Go put it on and lets have a look then.

So into our bathroom I went. I have always thought of myself as fairly average in the penis department. Apparently, I am a bit on the plus size. After much grunting and struggling I was not getting anywhere. My wife came in to see what was happening JUST as one of the sharp edges of the ring pinched my sack and suddenly BLOOD EVERYWHERE!!! Well, she was done for the night.

Disappointed and sad I cleaned up and went to bed. She gave me a reassuring pat on the butt and said for me to find a larger size and we would try again.

At 2am I woke again and decided to give it a second try. I managed to get it on, only to find out my right nad would not stay in.


That's not going to work! After fiddling around, I got both in! No blood...


I had to work that day (Saturday on a six hour shift, so I decided to wear it. OUCH! This thing grinded on me everywhere. By the end of my drive home I was done. My wife went to unlock me and looked at my balls which were bright red and said "No. This is too small baby. You're not wearing this one again."

Well, that sucks. So on to more research!

Next up: I invest in Chinese Steel

 

Chapter Three: Chinese Steel

With the Rikers device now sitting in the garbage (I mean, you can't do a lot with a cock cage that does not fit.) I started looking on eBay and found out about the Chinese Devices. So I ordered two. The first one came in just a few days, the second took a month. The first was a well made device and fit a LOT better than the Rickers, but the rings were too small for my shaft and the skin bulged out, this meant that even my softest underware felt like 70 grit sand paper. Also, my wife did not like the included locking mech as it was not as easy for her to lock up.


But overall, it was workable. Then my wife and I got into an argument about nothing and suddenly I didn't want to be locked up. Very confusing moment. We ended up taking a week off and not talking about it. Then the second device showed up and we talked and decided to try again because I really like not feeling like I'm in charge of our sex life and not masturbating one to three times a day. I actually started loosing weight!

Then, I was carrying my kid upstairs and my right nut popped out of the ring as I was climbing! Oops!

The next day at work, I sneezed and both nuts popped out! I almost choked on my surprise!

I texted my wife and told her. So she replied "Well, that one won't work will it? Try the other one tonight..."

Well, the other one, fit me great! But... It is chrome plated. Which will rust in a humid environment.


I wish this one came in stainless and was a bit shorter. Then it would be PERFECT! But after two days it rusted. By know I new I liked a regular ring, and I needed to have a padlock and a shorter but thicker ring. LEARNING IS FUN!!!

My next two fit me better and one I can even pee standing up.


This is the one I am currently in. I can pull my foreskin through the hole in the front and pee at a urinal.


This one I like and has convinced me that I want a real Jailbird, I was worried about the wire rope, but it does not chafe. But I can't pee at a urinal. So it's the first one for a while for me.

My wife is now starting to order me into my cage in the mornings. She locks and unlocks me and I get a kiss each time which feels romantic to me. And she initiated a tease and denial session a few days ago. We even have a 90 day KH contract that would probably be considered fairly vanilla but she is comfortable with it. She does not want me sleeping in it so I am only locked durning the day (about 14 hours.) And I am doing good. As of today I am 7 days without an orgasam and my wife says We might have a "date" this weekend.

Also, I have lost 15 pounds in almost four weeks without even trying. Funny how having your balls and cock locked up can take your mind off of snacking and drinking soda!

 

Chapter the Third: Out of the cage.

I have been locked up in my new cage until this last Thursday when my right nad (Now known to me as "The escape artist") popped out of the ring at work. I have been loosing weight and my wife and I think that might be changing my general shape down there. I have my latest two devices so I tried the second one. There is some play on the post that comes off the ring, so I bent the cage down a bit so that the gap between the base of the cage and the ring os smaller. This seemed to work all day, but when I got home my left nut was low and the scrotum seemed loose and baggy, my right was high and tight.

OK...

Saturday I woke horny as Hell and did not want to wake my wife so I put on my other device (I had also bent that down a bit.) and went back to bed. Woke up and my sack looked happy and normal. Wore it all day and that night before bed they still looked normal. Healthy color and warm. "OK, I thought. It was that cage, this one is working fine now." I thought.

Sunday put on my device that morning. Kept checking, happy healthy balls. We go to the movies that afternoon and I come home to go to the bathroom and it's back, but this time the lefty was flushed red and the scrotum looked like it was larger than normal. Righty was high and tight. I showed my wife and she was like "Uh-uh. That doesn't look baby. Let's take it off and let your body relax. I know you like these but they are not working like the links you sent me say they should."

So now it's Monday morning. I'm sad. I feel like I finally found something that makes me feel more calm and relaxed and it is improving my sex life with my wife, and I just can't find the right fit.

If I was made of money I would just get a custom device from MM. But, sadly I am not.

Back to the drawing board! Any advice is welcome...

 

Four -

After a weekend of not being locked because we were on a weekend vaca with another family, I'm back in and last night my wife forgot I was locked up and I feel asleep, so... I spent my first night in my cage and did great! Now we have decided I will only take it off for showers! Yay!

I've also been in contact with Mature Metal about a jailbird. It will have to be after our 90 day KH contact is up in May, but it looks like things are going well.

 

Part the FIVE -

This last weekend I went out of town, I don't have a plastic cage so my wife said just don't do anything while you're gone. Yeah, that night I was like an animal. I managed not to climax all weekend, but I about rubbed myself raw the whole time. I felt horrible about it, but could not stop myself. When I got back I told my wife and she asked what I wanted to do. Up until then we were just putting the cage on me during the day and sleeping without. I suggested I try 24/7 in the cage and just out for cleaning and fun. So since Sunday I have been caged and it has worked pretty well. Last night I was awake more from being horny than uncomfortable.

So, now I'm a full time chastity guy. Our 90 day contract ends mid-May and she says she already is ok with us doing this all the time. I asked if I could get a custom Jailbird and she said yes to that but I can't order until our 90 days are up. (I think she is just doing this to exercise her control more than anything else. My Vanilla KH is starting to find her grove in this lifestyle. We even tried to use the Magic wand to ruin a orgasm in my cage. I felt like I got close but didn't come. It was still a lot of fun though!

I have lost 15lbs since February! I started this at 265 and today I am 250. My goal is 220 by January 1st.

More to come...