PE issues and chastity

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    I am currently in a 60 day challenge where she not take off the cage or play with my dick through the cage at all to minimize risks of accidentally orgasming.

    Until before had breaks of periods without chastity cage after challenges, but this time she not want to stop with me wearing a chastity cage and controlling my orgasm after the challenge. Which is fine for me, I love it.

    The dilemma I see is that while she can go easily without penetration sex during challenges (2-3 months) with just oral sex and toys, at one point she starts to crave to feel a real dick and strong fuck. I already suffer from from lifelong PE, and being locked for 60 days and then this getting continued with probably a weekly or bi-weekly release won’t help.

    What can I do or try to minimize this issue? Anyone here who can talk from experience? What I tried already was Viagra and this truly helped when we went for the second round shortly after, but I am afraid this tactic won’t work with the extra sensitivity during chastity.
     
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    Numbing cream can help. I have noticed that I become quite quick after an extended stay in chastity, but recently used some numbing cream and lasted about as long as I normally would have. Just make sure you allow it to sit and then wash it off THOROUGHLY so you don't wind up numbing her! And use the minimum the first time.
     
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    Prior to chastity, I could last a few minutes, maybe 5 minutes before cumming. Now that I'm locked and denied several months at time, when she wants to feel the real thing, it's almost pointless. I'm not allowed to cum, so within a minute of entering her hot wet pussy, I'm ready to explode. Doesn't matter if we are a week into a chastity period or 3 months , within a few strokes, I'm ready to cum. She gets frustrated. So other than numbing cream and/or a condom to reduce sensitivity, my only recourse is to suggest I wear a strapon. I don't think there's really any other option. PE or quickly cumming is just a direct result of being locked and denied but I am open to hear any other ideas or suggestions.
     
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    This is very much like my experience. I only last a short while inside her when I get the chance (sub minute). I have felt bad about that but she said it’s a turn on to know that I want her so bad I can’t last.

    We have resorted to using my tongue, hands, and a strap on for her. About twice a year I’m allowed to finish inside her and that’s been on a downward trajectory, but she still would not go back to before MC. She likes me how I am and how things are between us so I’m still doing what she wants and that’s a win in my book. Yes, I have PE, but as long as she’s OK with it, so am I.
     
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    If anyone here is a neurologist or has vast medical knowledge, I found that Dianabol fixes the issue within 15 minutes. It’s a liver toxic anabolic steroid that can only be taken on 6 week cycles. Within 15 or 20 minutes of the first pill you can fuck like a porn star. I don’t know why or if there is something else less toxic to do the same thing.

    same happens to be, numbing cream made me last like 10 minutes after eating her while covered in the cream and wearing a condom, I took it off and washed well prior to entrance.

    mentally disconnecting orgasm from sex helped to, we couldn’t do it long term though. If you know you don’t get to come from sex and you enter her, eventually you last really long.
     
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    I have seen some online sites for P.E. and using numbing cream and one finger to orgasm. They want to orgasm as fast as can and will use things like pics of clothed women or feet so on no nudes
     
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    Whenever your Wife allows you the privileged of having penetrative sex with her, suggest you roll on a condom after applying the numbing cream otherwise the sensation and pleasure your wife has will be reduced.
     
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    Offer her to cuckold you.
     
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    Yes, we are talking about this too and actually tried it once. But it looks like it’s not really cuckolding anymore as she wants to watch me with another woman too. Probably getting more into swinging and I think we both enjoy the excitement from time to time.

    What we aim to try now is periods of challenges and periods of still wearing the cage (during alone time, sleep), but building up stamina again by daily sex. I hope it will work out this way.
     
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    I guess I am lucky in that my wife will orgasm as soon as my tongue touches her clit. Since we are lifestyle chastity players I have not had any form of intercourse in over 35 years. We cannot remember when the last time was. Two issues, my wife is bi and she had many surgeries that left her vagina in bad shape for intercourse as it hurts her. So for us chastity was a natural way to make lemonade from the lemons life gave us.

    I never really had PE problems except with girls that require a very long time to orgasm. When that happened I would orgasm and then perform oral on them which did the trick and no one complained. My wife's girlfriend took very long to reach orgasm. My wife and I had to double team her taking turns as our mouths got sore and I had developed ED so oral was the only sex we could provide her. When she first moved in with us I did attempt intercouse with her but she was not tight and I could not hold off long enough as she took too damn long to reach orgasm so we stopped that.

    The way I learned to stop PE is recommended by sex therapist or at least in my day they did. It is to masturbate and stop before you orgasm. Keep doing that every day until you train your brain to not orgasm so fast. You can judge your progress by the increase in time it takes to get to the point right before you feel you will ejaculate. Try this method as it worked for me in my very early days.
     
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    My KH Wife complained about this some years ago, and she started using the squeeze technique of my glans, or squeeze and tug only testicles which can be quite painful. Worked a treat though! Also tightening up your PC muscles works too but that takes some time. Ultimately PE was a short passing phase for me.
     
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    Embrace your PE
     
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