Like the alliteration I did there? Anyway I'm about to move into college as a freshman and I have no idea how to live my life, at least the part that involves chastity. So I want to hear how your experiences in college with chastity belts on went- were you rather public about it or was it a total secret?
ha ha. They didn't even exist in my day. Neither did laptops nor the internet. Modern problems! I am jealous.
I wouldn't make that public in all honesty... People talk a lot. That, especially as a freshman, would not make you a happy person.
Living your student life wearing your cage is not a easy thing. College is the place where flirting with girls or boys ( I don't know your sexual orientation) is a normal thing. So walking in the corridors filled with attractives young women or men isn't an easy thing knowing that your cock is locked. You will get attracted by some people and eventually some people will get attracted by you. I am also in college so if you want further advices don't hesitate.
yeah I'm afraid people will just know me as that one weird kid with the thing on his dick and not want to be friends with me, yet it's such a small part of my life that few people will ever be affected by it's hard to justify it being such a loaded topic
Just one trip to your dorm room's public bathroom in the nude while locked - that is all it will take for all to sorority gals to know you are to be the chosen one... beware!
these days they may even have a bdsm soc. Watch out for it at freshers week. you can always go along to a local munch or club. You don't have to stick to college events.
Everything is coming out of the closet. Your disclosure may define you as a leader. It might attract some real babes on e word gets out. If so, you will be in the cat bird seat! Hg
If chastity is important to you then I see no reason to stop just because you're going to college. It's not like you need to broadcast it to everyone there either. I'd actually propose that college is the perfect time for men to be in chastity. They can spend three formative years learning to actually appreciate women and not acting like the lustful predators that college guys usually are. If your behaviour towards the opposite sex improves when in chastity, why would you not want to continue that?
Like Holy said, I think it's very rewarding to spend college wearing a cage for a man who is willing (or not) to include chastity in his life. But I don't see any reason why you should publicly announce that you are in chastity. It's like when you go to the bakery, there's no need to tell people that you are locked to buy bread.. But if you develop some friendly or even some deeper relationships and at some point you feel the need to reveal your penis situation. Then maybe, you could reveal it.. But in my experience, I never felt the need to tell any of my college friends that I was kept in chastity.
I just sat in a room having a business meeting and training session with three trainers and six of my business peers. I didn't mention the fact that I was locked during the two days we spent together and I've never told any of them during my trips around Germany as a consultant. Why do you think you might need to tell other people at college what you do?
I played with it in college and no one ever knew. I even wore plugs to class sometimes. I had online dommes who I texted dirty things and senior year i looked at porn on my laptop while in my living room with my roommates. They were none the wiser to any of this. Now it did make it easier that I wasn't the best with girls and went to an engineering school with ~28% girls so it was never an issue. But do what you feel is right in the moment. College is supposed to be fun, whatever that means to you!
I wore a cockcage all through college, it was the only way I could afford college as my 'Dad' paid for it. I used the showers and wrestled in my cage. A few guys thought it was weird, not sure if it was the cage or me being gay. It is how I chose to live my life. I have no regrets, it has been 12 years and I am still locked, in love, have a great job and a super Dad. I would not change a thing. I have several friends from college which are also no into bring caged. It is bigger than most guys realize as it is nit talked about. Was it easy? no but it is great. Be true to yourself.
I've been exploring chastity for all four years in college, including through having roommates and having to use a communal bathroom. There was much more privacy than I expected anywhere, and hiding your dick from your roommates is relatively easy. I mean, even if your changing in the same the room you can just turn around or ask them not to turn around. I highly recommend you pursue chastity in college, and feel free to reach out on Tumblr at queercollegechastity or on Kik at lockedcollegestudent if you wanna chat
You can even do fun things like hide your key in an obscure book in the library or in a classroom that you rarely have access to.
Each to their own, but personally I quite enjoyed the hot and slightly promiscuous sex that I had at University. I think by wearing chastity you may be missing out on all the fun. You may also run the risk of ridicule. As others have mentioned, maybe try a local BDSM society or group. Did you make your cage permanent (as per a previous thread)?