I have music playing on my computer all the time. Often, too loud for my wife's ears. She often goes to my desk to turn down the volume control on my computer. I could purposely turn the music too loud and go do other things in the house. When she comes in to the computer the chastity mansion page could be 'accidentally' left up on the screen. And she would say 'chastity mansion? what's that all about?' Come on now, who dares me????????
My wife is not a internet surfer by choice But if I suggest her some posts /sites about chastity, she does read them She is more than happy to lock me 24x7 in a steel cage and have total control She is not much eager to explore what others have to say!
Well, you obviously want her to know about it, so why not just have an intimate moment and tell her of your own accord?
May be a little back ground for us folks at may be helpful: Are you new/looking at chastity and want your wife involved ? Are you currently in a device? If so is your wife aware? If not are you looking to get a device ? I could go on but I think you may see where I am going. If you are looking for your wife's inclusion, a conversation without load music is the way to go. It may help to have your reasoning in line as well. Perhaps it is to spice things up, maybe your a submissive..... Whatever it may be, honesty is the best policy. Also be ready for any response and be accepting thereof. It is a long fun road if done correctly.
SubVerity is spot on for me. 10 years ago, on a wonderful summer night under the stars, I took my beautiful wife out to the backyard swing held her hand, looked in her eyes...........and stumbled through the first part of asking her to cage me. Eventually, the conversation flowed smoother, but her eyes never left mine. And don't think the 'leave the website open' idea didn't cross my mind. But I read enough beforehand to find an almost unanimous thought against that. If your relationship isn't in a place where you can be honest, it may not be in a place for chastity. Ok, that sounded mushy for a Harley riding, oilfield truck driver, but I'm a real man who loves his wife and doesn't want to ever not be her caged guy.
subverity is also "spot on" with me. Do stop playing childish games and for heavens sake speak to her.
Yeah, just tell her you have this kink and it is something that you'd like to explore. Tell her you find it hot to be denied but that doesn't mean denial for her and that you'd like to try it out. If that doesn't work, then you are in a tough situation. The "leaving the web page open" might cause her to pretend to have not seen it, then she may doubt herself, you or your relationship. Or none of those things, I have no idea what she is like or how confident she is but people, myself included have a tendency to trip themselves up over things like this, so it is best to talk to her imo. Good luck.
Bravery is one of the most attractive things to a lady. It took me more than 2 weeks to think about what I wanted to say and to get the nerve and timing right. The sentances were so hard to get out at first, but got easier as they went on. They started with "my love, there's something we need to talk about..." And everything flowed from there. From the off she could see how important it was to me , and it ended up with us sharing more love and closeness than we had for years. So have a think, get your timing right, and be brave!