First week in Chastity

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    So I made it. One whole week 24/7. I've had moments that were quite uncomfortable and times when I thought I could wear it forever. Thursday I thought I was reaching my limit. I felt kinda foggy and unable to focus, wasn't sure if it was the device or lack of sleep because I had a couple rough nights.

    Woke up Friday and felt great the whole day. I had told my wife a week was my goal. So I was looking forward to getting unlocked this weekend. I texted her Friday afternoon to tell her about how I felt Thursday vs Friday and said it felt like I had a second wind she texted back:

    "That's great! Look forward to a whole nother week!"

    So now I won't be getting unlocked this weekend.....
     
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    Congratulations! I am new to chastity myself. I initially struggled to make it through 24 hours several times. A couple weeks ago I made it through 4 days at which point I set my time lock so I so I would be forced to finish a whole week. That last day I couldn't wait for the lock to open. Not because of a desire to orgasm but because of the discomfort.

    With my most recent lock-up I am at 2 weeks today at noon. Right now I am planning to set the time lock for an additional week. I have never, in my life, gone 3 weeks without touching my penis or getting an erection.
     
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    Congratulations! Once I got to a week I was fine, it’s the first 3-4 days I found to be the most difficult, here to you hitting a month!
     
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    Well done! It's a great feeling isn't it! You do realise you could have started something now that you won't have any control of? When the weeks become months at a time!!!! What device are you locked in?
     
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    @Clearstatic thats very good what you have done but it best not to ask when you can be unlock cos sometimes you wont be. and then you will be sad and if you dint ask its better.
     
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    Thanks!

    Make Chastity now, amicus
     
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    Congratulations, you are on a right way, be proud about it
     
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    Congratulations, the first week is a big milestone. If you can handle a week, you can handle two or even a month. The longer you stay locked the easier the nights get too.
     
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    I still remember my first week in my MaleChastityNow Contender; my memories are will vivid from 1-8 October 2014.

    Congratulations.
    Your wife’s response is fun and supportive. Good luck!

    I’m lucky myself - ever since I spent that first week 24/7, I’ve been under her orgasm control (whether I’ve been in the cage or not).
     
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    please whats that mean.
     
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    He meant the Amicus semi-custom stainless steel chastity cage made by Mark over at MaleChastityNow.com which sells for $160. (Male not Make)
    http://malechastitynow.com/Chastity-Device/Amicus

    I’ve been a happy customer of MCN for years now, and wholeheartedly recommend his designs, execution, advice and customer service.
     
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    Yes. Sorry for the typo. And thanks for the save Peter.
     
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    That’s amazing well done! The first week is tough, after that it really does get easier, to the point when you don’t want to unlock as you doing so well!

    Good bois stay locked.
     
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    Glad you got the first week "under your belt"... Smile
     
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    yes, just "hang in there" :rolleyes:o_O:+1:
     
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    I concur that there is a lot of ebb and flow to one’s feelings. I am generally not locked more than 10 days straight but now trying for 30.
     
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    3 to 4 days is the norm here, but being released does not necessarily mean being allowed a full O. Miss A decides what is needed and deserved.
     
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    yes the first week is the hardest congrats. Well you now know who is in charge of your orgasms. Just behave and hopefully she let you out after the second week (me i have a problem behaving).
     
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    Congrats. On day 4 here and we've been having serious discussions about what it means to each of us. Hoping mine answers similarly. As Lucy said, No is very powerful.
     
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    Two weeks. I was let out and allowed a full orgasm, PIV. Man what an orgasm it was. I haven't gone two weeks with out am orgasm since I've figured out how to masturbate.
     
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    It will be a week tomorrow. I begged her to let me out for just three minutes this weekend when she was teasing me...she said no.
     
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    Went 120+ days recently. The hardest is the beginning. Back at maybe 2-3 weeks.

    I love being locked. I want to cum sometimes, but being locked takes over.
     
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    This Friday will be four weeks with out a full orgasm.
     
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    And may you have many more orgasm free weeks! Orgasms aren't good for you. According to Mrs Chaste that is. And who are the likes of us to argue with our better halves?
     
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    Congrats on your first milestone. Enjoy the process, as it is more exciting that way.
     
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