Is it normal for the chaste male to use a vibrator on his Mistress instead of penetrative sex? My Mistress has never used one and I was thinking of getting one for her that I could use on her. I am thinking of one of the Lelo ORA 2 devices as it does not look like a typical porn vibrator that might put her off. Any opinions appreciated. Dianne
At my mistress'es (who is also my KH) direction, she had me once use a Lelo vibrator on her while I serviced her orally. While I don't know the name of the particular Lelo model, I know that it was a favorite device of hers. I only had the privilege of using it on her once and it was thrilling for both of us. It was the only time we ever switched; she had me suspend her and put her in restraints while I serviced her and used the vibrator on her. I've never had penetrative sex with her although she routinely fists me.
@OwnedbyLeeanne Mistress likes her rabbit vibrator. It rotates it vibrates and it can really get her off.. Regards Lucy x
My Wife / KH has the hitatchi magic wand that I purchased for her. The first time I used it on her she had the most intense orgasm ever. Second time she came twice (something she has never done) then after jokingly told me that it was dangerous and to get rid of it. We were having our weekly talk about how things are going when I asked her if she thought we would have PIV again. To which she simply replied that she was not sure and it was my fault because I was the one that bought the magic wand for her.
Thank to all for the reply. I purchased a Lelo Alia for her today but have yet give it to her. She has guessed I was out and purchased some toys today and I said that she was in big trouble. It will be interesting to see how she reacts as I have a relative that works in an Adult shop and insists on handing out sex toys to the girls for Xmas, My wife does not approve. Anyway if she likes it then maybe my job will be just to keep it charged. Dianne
My wife tried the rabbit first, then a lelo. She loved the lelo until I bought her a body wand, like a hitachi but cordless. She had never been able to orgasm consistently until the body wand! Since buying that she has not let me out near as much...
@OwnedbyLeeanne first and for most EVERY sexual relationship and being is unique and there is no single shoe that fits everyone. With that said my KH prefers real live cock over anything else (Magic wand / dildos / strap-ons / vibrators / etc) so in my personal situation the answer would be no. However I know women that prefer a tongue or a vibrator or a big dildo over a cock. Which i find amusing on the whole, because my KH LOVES her Magic Wand and it guarantees her an orgasm any time any where ... which leads to the point that she wants the intimacy that only a real live cock can give. She does however have fun with it by combining the two together and saying that ONLY she gets to CUM. You want to talk about a challenge ... be so horny and on the edge that a slight breeze gets you hard and then have your KH tell you that you don't get to cum but that you are going to be penetrating her pussy while she uses a Magic Wand on her clit (which you can feel the vibration in your cock) ... talk about FRUSTRATED SEX ...