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    #1 L-u-c-y, Feb 3, 2020
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    Since I first got into this scene I have always been nagged by males to call them their favourite derogatory name, like bitch, worm or pig.

    I've refused 99.9% of the time as I think it's a cliche and just doing what THEY want.

    Also I thought, surely no one really wants to be called a worthless worm?

    Then a one day a couple of months ago an online sub was bombarding me with nagging messages and really annoying me, in my frustration I said "Stop whining like a little bitch!"

    It had an amazing effect, he immediately because more submissive and obedient!

    Since then I have embraced it and really enjoy the seeing the effect. Males seem even more simpler creatures now!

    So next time you see a woman using these words, they are not necessarily doing it to be cruel or that they hate men, there might be a good reason! :)

    Anyone else enjoy these words?
     
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    I wouldn't personally but i do like my wife's choice of 'sugar tits'. It is versatile and sometimes is used derogatively/pejoratively so i....maybe yes i do!
     
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    i enjoy and love the additional power Your calling me bitch has given to You. i am desperate to deserve better and am trying harder to please and obey.
     
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    I enjoy any name calling. But I can’t help but get weak over being called a Slut.
     
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    Slut is one step too far for me, I don't think males should be sluts.
     
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    I would tend to not use. It often refers to calling a person the offspring of a dog. In that use, the female dog is the one being made inferior. Why,? She may have had nothing to do do with how her child turned out. Disparage the child, not the innocent mother.
     
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    "Lowly Worm" is one of the names my Keyholder Wife has for me, which is why i have the Richard Scarry character of that name af my avatar. i like it because it describes the power differential between U/us very clearly and go into sub-mode whenever She uses it on me.

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    you are the Goddess. You are right
     
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    I would not accept or enjoy those three terms.
     
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    I think there’s a place for these words, depending on the situation. My wife called me a pig and sometimes I truly think compared to her I am like a pig. But that just a comparison between me and her. It’s also become a term of endearment. When she called me piggy that’s very lighthearted and things are going fine. When she use the word pig I know somethings changed her somethings not right. It’s the same as if she was it my full name or my nickname. All I know is when she does use the word pig I like it because it shows me where my place is in The hierarchy of things.

    I can see where you would think that maybe you’re pandering to them and doing what they want. But if you can say a word like That and it is something they want yet you get the desired results that you want it’s a win-win And that’s not a bad thing as long as it doesn’t go out of control.
     
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    Mistress really does not call me anything like that except for a sick prick some times. The lttlet1 series of videos where they are big on Strap on sex and chastity she often calls him an arse slut and I find some of those vids quite arousing. I wouldn't mind Mistress calling me that while she was exercising her pelvic muscles on me.

    Of course everyone will have a different stance on this.
     
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    I love the use of “bitch” in the FLR dynamic. It is the most assertive term that you can apply to someone that instantly reminds them of their roles and is universal. Men are to Women what squirrels are to humans. Simple and controllable if only you know how to lay out the bread crumbs and seeds.
     
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    When used entirely naturally I find it genuinely triggers my desire to submit and be obedient.
     
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    I'm not really a fan of them. I believe that a person can be submissive without being degraded. I guess it just flies in the face of "all people are important," if someone is using terms like that as in insult for someone based on their sexual desires. But that's just me
     
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    I personally don't like them, but can see their place. As far as bitch, it just seem way over used these days. Not a fan of used in most situations. But then again, I also feel the ultimate choice lies with the KH or domme.
     
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    Their sexual desires are irrelevant to me, so it's not based on that.
     
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    Each person is likely different in what he/she/they respond to. I can only answer for myself. In an emotionally attached relationship, a negative name would make me sad that I did not please. Of course there is something to be said for working with widening one's emmotional range if feelings to make the joy seem even more joyful when it is found. Personally, I respond best to "good boy." Hearing that makes me melt.
     
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    "Good boy" used to be my favourite, but I found it was losing it's effect with some people. I still use it quite a bit though.
     
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    I believe I misspoke. I didn't mean that you are using the terms in a sexual nature. But more that they are being used to degrade someone and its seen as ok because of the role they identify as. If they're into it is fine, but I've seen it used broadly to apply to everyone. I've received messages in the past from women who address me as worm, bitch, etc. and that isn't something I'm into, so even if I was interested in hearing what she said I'm automatically turned off because she decided that she wanted to use this derogatory term.
     
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    Yes, I only use the words if I think it will get the desired reaction. Pointless if neither side enjoy it.
     
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    Unfortunately, you seem to be in the minority in that category. If you go on Fetlife there are many examples of women just throwing them around, no matter if people like it or not
     
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    Too many people follow fetish cliches, men and women.
     
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    Have you ever tried or talked about the herb cilantro? Some people like it and some people say that it taste like soap. It is about 50/50 and there is no in between. Same goes for the word "bitch". Context and how it is used, like many things is what determines how you view things. The beauty of the word "bitch" is that it provides a strong emotion when it is said from both sides. It is not meant as a word of comfort but rather passion. Passion and devotion go together.
     
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    Yes. But the thing I don't like is someone walking up and force-feeding me cilantro without my consent. That's what I don't like, the broad strokes of women calling me a worthless bitch.
     
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    I would guess any women that approach you on fetlife will be dodgy anyway. Women don't need to do the approaching. : )

    I've never approached anyone in 6 years.
     
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