Permanent chastity experience?

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  1. Sameera
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    Just a quick fun question for you guys
    Have anyone gone to permanent chastity?
    And you are not going to get another orgasm ever again
    How does it feel and when did you last cum?
     
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    I'm locked up permanently. Have been since November 15 2017. My last orgasms was a ruined one July 30th last year. My wife informed me on that day that that was it for me. No more orgasms not even ruined ones.
    I'm not happy about it, but there is nothing I can do about it. She has the keys locked in a biometric safe that only her finger will open. I'm locked in a Lori 2a no way out of it.
    I'm still hoping she will reconsider about keeping me locked permanently but so far it doesn't look good for me.
     
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    I also am locked 24/7 (once a week release to wash) and have been for years, last time I had sex with my madam was over 5 years ago, she banned it after a couple of weeks of me submitting to her desire to cuckold me. And the last orgasm I had was over 18 month ago. Madam was not happy with my attitude afterwards and said it won’t be happening again. I am permitted anal stimulation and orgasm with madams permission, and so far she has yet to say no. As she finds the thought and sight of me doing it very amusing!
     
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    So no unlock ever??
     
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    I don't know if it will be permanent, but it seems to be headed that way.

    So far it's been about a year and a half. I'm not unlocked except for medical or travel reasons. Intercourse is me wearing a strapon, which we have anywhere from once to three times a week.

    Mrs Edge and I have a good relationship, and there's no humiliation or anything like that involved. We've toyed with the idea of permanent in the past, just because it's hot to both of us. We're just having fun. If it stopped being fun for either of us, we'd stop.
     
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    What type of safe. If it really get to the point where it is unbearable,cut open the safe. I don't know your relationship and how you got started in the first place so the real issue is how it is effecting you and your headspace. My wife did the ignore thing and very honestly I told her if thats how she wanted to play it wasn't worth it for me to stick around. I was actually thinking violent thoughts, not because of the cage but because of the lack of respect. If you are really bothered by being locked and it is a deal breaker, explain to the wife that its getting to be a deal breaker ( after you had secured the safe) and she can either take the care off and be done or you will destroy the safe, take the cage off and then sit down to have the talk. I know fairly drastic and kind of scorched earth but ask yourself if going the rest of your life without sexual satisfaction will result in regrets.
     
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    All sounds just perfect to me! Pretty much like the world of Mr & Mrs Chaste! Or should that really be Mrs & Mr?
     
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    Survey says:

    1. YES, since 12-31-17 self locked

    2. No. Never will O again

    3. Being locked with no release ever is, well......AWESOME! I don't remember the last time I did. It was waaaaay before I locked, though. I don't remember what it feels like to be more than halfway, which is where I am at 24-7. It is like a never ending halfway up the mountain, but never reaching the top. No ups and downs, just up and up and....stay right there,.....
     
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    If you were to go back and read some of my past post. You will very quickly realize that I totally deserve being locked up. The very first day I was locked, I did it myself. Gave the keys to my wife and confessed that I had been mastubating for years behind her back. I thought that after a few days she would free me. I was wrong. She now loves me being locked and wants it that way always. I have no ill will about being locked. I made my own bed, now I have to sleep in it
    She said no more orgasms for now
    I have to earn it. I'm not sure how much I need to do more to earn one but she will decide when I have earned it not me.
     
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    I have been told a few times I would be locked forever with no release, but my mistress eventually releases me for good behavior and to have PIV sex. Last time it was just shy of a month. My mind was over the initial hump of grasping life without sex, so it was a total surprise to have sex.
     
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    Chastity for me is permanent, but I do get to get myself off, while locked, once every 1-2 months. We read the recent studies about masturbation vs prostate problems, but that study showed a reduction when the guy ejaculated around 20 times a month. Due to some surgeries Ive had in the past, I don't absorb nutrients as well as I used to, and found that since the surgeries (Chron's disease) if I ejaculate more than once a week, or even less, I get weak, tired and foggy headed. So...no 20 times a month for me anyhow.

    We have found that going 3+ months resulted in off coloured, gloopy ejaculate (more like amber jelly since my vasectomy) and I'm required to empty every 1-2 months as a result. Maybe other guys have no issues like this when going multiple months? In any case, zero orgasms would be more of a fantasy for me. Having said that. Being fully locked, and getting no genital stimulation, I find that 2 months is not a problem at all now. If I was still edging part of the time, or getting PIV sex without ejaculation, I do have more "gloopy" ejaculations. Being fully denied has made a big difference for sure.
     
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    A sub friend was locked for 11 years while I knew him.An illness, and long hospital stay shortened the Chastity just before he reached the grand old age of 65
     
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    My last unlocked ejaculation was about a year and 1/2 ago, and my last locked ejaculation was 6 months ago.

    My Wife and i agree that we are both better off if i never ejaculate again. Only time will tell if that becomes reality

    Being permanently denied is thrilling, arousing, humialting, and challenging.
     
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    In July of 2015, my owner was going to permanently lock me after 3 opportunities to cum by masturbating for the rest of my life. When she informed me I could only have 3 more orgasms, one in 2015, one in 2016, and my last one forever in 2017, I was a bit surprised and somewhat scared. I thought about it for less than an hour, and decided I wanted what she she did, and that I would agree to her proposal. The first time I had 5 minutes to masturbate, but failed because I was unable to get erect, so I had only 2 more tries left. A few months later, I came down with a health problem, and I had to remove my cage. That along with a couple of other issues, resulted in my owner abandoning me, which was tremendously humiliating. I'm still disappointed I didn't have the opportunity to remain sexless for life under her ownership.
     
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    Much respect to anyone's preferences, but permanent chastity and O denial would seem to me like a very bleak outlook. Miss A feels the same way, and she would be deprived of the motivational effect of my desire to be released and feel her hand on me.
     
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    In my case permanent orgasm denial does not include permanent chastity. My Wife and i have intercourse when She desires it, and i refrain from ejaculating
     
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    In my case, my owner had a husband that she cuckolded and placed in permanent chastity like she did with me, although he had already had his last cum forever. She had a number of very well-endowed men she had PIV sex with as often as she wished.
     
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    thank you for asking

    after gradually increase time in a cage (and limit the number of orgasms to 3 in 3 years), My Queen has decided that i was to be in a chastity eternally. last allowed orgasm was in January 2019, through a hole carved in a grapefruit.

    i have embraced the idea of no longer have an orgasm, and to focus on my servitude to Her. i actually feel better and stronger, as She wants me to be. being permanently locked isn’t however easy in all circumstances and all days.

    if interested, you can watch the videos about my life in chastity and in servitude on YT (channel « servant bertha »), a channel of course controlled, of course, by My Queen :)
     
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    Male orgasm denial isnt just a kink and it isnt new. My Wife had me read rhe book The Tao of Love and Sex when we were dating many years ago. At the time i thought it was nuts. Now here i am.
     
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    Have anyone gone to permanent chastity?
    Yes via an Evotion Bijou. Allow out occasionally only to be put in a Goethals Chinese knockoff.

    And you are not going to get another orgasm ever again.

    Allowed perhaps 2- 3 orgasms a year. This is completely dictated by my Wife/Mistress and only under the following conditions:
    No more PIV. Only allowed to orgasm with a vibrator with my chaste member tucked between my legs and held there by the attached B-vibe butt plug (see pics) . Added to this are multiple layers of control panties and an extra firm girdle.

    How does it feel and when did you last cum?

    Wonderful !!! … as I feel the vibrator inside my butt as well as on my chaste member.
    Years of this routine has induced some sexual dysphoria regarding my maleness since my member is no longer even visible when I am allowed an orgasm. This is re-enforced with weekly bondage sessions where my chaste member is always tucked between my legs either as described above or with the Goethals knockoff.
     
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    Also locked 24/7 for the past 2 years, in an evolution Bijou tethered to a piercing. So, it's not coming off without the key, short of power tools and blood loss. My wife/KH and I fully expect me to remain locked as long as we are both living. I have had 2 orgasms this year, and I don't know if there will be anymore. Works for us.
     
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    I just re-read my post, and realized I made an error. The last sentence should read: "I'm still disappointed I lost the opportunity to remain sexless for life under her ownership." I screwed up and lost a great opportunity. I really messed up and it wasn't anybody's fault but my own.
     
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    Sorry you missed that opportunity nrbill. It may be where I end up sexless for life. I am 47 so many years left in me. This period now with no cum is my longest just 42 days so it may be far to early to say for sure. I will see how long it goes this time.
     
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    'Permanent' has different menings to different people. I, and M'Lady, consider my chastity to be permanent by the fact that I will never be left uncaged again. So long as we are together I am caged and she controls the keys. That does not mean I will never have PIV or orgasms again, just that they are at HER discretion and I will be locked back up after either happen.
     
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    Different to me KittensProprty I am not always locked. I was for the first few years but it's become less and less vital now. I am still in permanent chastity though because I will not have an orgasm without permission. Again this is because of the years we have been in this.
     
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