Only ruined orgasms...?

I am only permitted anal orgasms, with a ruined one when I have been especially good! With an anal O, there is non of the relief afterwards, you still feel horny!

 

@Jizzy you might’ve been chancing your arm posting this here, darling. The fantasists and wannabes will be all over it, I reckon, telling us how much they LOVE the creative and cruel ways they’re denied their orgasmic pleasure ... except, of course, they’re furiously masturbating while they’re typing!

 

Mr A is allowed 4 full orgasms and 12 ruined orgasms per year....that was last years goal as well, however there were way too many orgasms for Mr A as evident by the tally

We are on track this year

 

@Jizzy I’m only allowed ruined maybe once a month or longer.I was told by the Mrs. maybe special occasions like anniversary and a holiday now and then.

 

What a fantastic app - what is it? And judging by the counter, someone must have a permanent smile on her face

 

I get a mixture of both - but we've talked recently about the difference in my energy levels, feelings and commitment after a full orgasm and the time it takes to get back to the correct place, both mentally and physically.

There used to be a very good article titled Control of the Male Orgasm which explained the various phases starting from orgasm to a refactory period to mildly interested (would accept intercourse) to predator (would seek intercourse).

These phases have different timings for different ages of men and have a look at how long your man stays in each.

On a personal note I sometimes want to refuse an orgasm as I want to remain in the happy state and eager to keep my Mistress happy.

 

It looks like "Thing Counter"
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=de.sleak.thingcounter

 

I can save everyone the time of searching through the reviews. Nobody has said they're using it to count orgasms or anything to do with chastity. Maybe I'll be the first

 

Post-orgasm behavior is a choice that the sub makes. A few years ago, I made a conscious decision that after every orgasm I would redouble my submission to demonstrate my level of appreciation for Mistress' attention. An orgasm by Her choosing is part of my submission, not a break from it.

 

My Wife always called these no-handers and we only recently saw the term "ruined" after joining this site. I've been using no-hands exclusively for several years except when my wife was trying to conceive which happened two months ago! My Wife and I find my testicles do not empty properly so I have a head start on my next chaste cycle.

 

all sex position when She wants (rarely)
but
to finish me :
only hand jobs
my hand job
when She wants (6 weeks ago for the last one)

 

It is thing counter
We also use days since to keep track of days since last full orgasm, ruined orgasm, ass thrashing and ass fucking

 

Just ruined for me... my Wife loves to watch me drip impotently into a shot glass.... and then there’s the clean up

 

We've had the experience of changed behavior after a full O and M called me out for being bratty after she generously gifted me a full release. I immediate felt regret, shame and sorrow for my behavior and more importantly for the way it disappointed M. We dealt with that or I should say she dealt with that through a major punishment session like I have never experienced before and dont want to again. It took me to the edge and back and my beaten ass hurt for days and the hand cramps from writing lines were agony. I totally deserved it and the thing I got out of it is the cleansing of my transgressions as well as extra motivation to not drop sub space after a full O.

Since then I have had one full O and several ruined. When M gifted me the full O I had no thought I was getting one. In fact, I had resigned myself to accept it would be a while. My gratitude for her kindness was overwhelming and I did not have any post O drop off. In fact, my submissive state deepened even more.

I found the dramatic change in my response to be amazing. I had no thought of leaving my role as her loyal and dedicated boy. I am fully focused on what I can do for her and how I can make her life better. There is something about giving oneself completely over to another in an act of unending devotion and love at this level that fills me with great joy and happiness. More and more I am experiencing a vicarious release through her releases and mine seem less and less important as time goes on. What really matters to me now is her and her needs. My joy is her joy.

I thought I was in my role as the sub in our FLR but before that incident I was attempting to top from the bottom. M took care of that and got me on track. I have my head on now and realized how important she is to me and how I am much much happier when I focus on her and she is in charge. We have fallen into a very nice groove which is working for both of us

 

Hey! I follow you guys on Fetlife! Hello!

 

Big orgasms have always caused a big mood drop for me, and several days of not wanting the stuff I wanted, just before the big orgasm. I think many guys are similar. I used to use a Tantric method of squeezing the pc muscle to stop the orgasm at the point of ejaculation, back when I was still edging. This fixed the problem of the mood drop, most of the time. I was hooked on edging, partly because if I'd orgasm more than 2-3 times a month, I'd get weak and tired all the time, like chronic fatigue. We thin its because of several surgeries for Crohns disease, which left me easily deficient in what I'm guessing may be zinc. This got me out of the habit of wanting big, or full orgasms.

Nowadays, I'm only allowed ruined ones. Partly for the above reasons, partly because my keyholder likes it that way, and partly because I'm better at getting pleasure from giving it, when I'm not comparing that pleasure to an orgasm, if that makes sense?

 

I have not been out of cage for 6 months
Two releases only in that time

Not pleasurable, I spasm but because urethral
Is squashed there is no "release", no orgasm, just a dribble afterwards
My wife is more than happy with the cage/belt arrangement to stay on for as long as possible barring emergency

She's not even sure where she hid the key last time

Yet, there is always the promise she says that I might get a real orgasm this year

We are not in a file, We practice chastity for other reasons and I am happy to sacrifice a moment of pleasure for this full time process of horniness
Devotion and love

,

 

Female led relationship bloody auto correct

 

If a begged my wife long enough she would give me a ruined orgasm, but that does not work anymore. Now the only time I orgasm is if I have an accident and a ruined orgasm. Accidents and becoming rare.