To orgasm or not to orgasm. That is the question.

I am new to this game and my wife gave me early release today and it was over so fast !! The anticipation up until this point was awesome !! I don't know own what to expect from here but I'm excited to see how she will react from my poor performance this morning . We didn't have a chance to talk much after . Tonight when we go to bed I'm sure we will discuss it . She likes penetration much more than oral . She can usually get off from oral . But always wants penetration after to be fully satisfied. Mabe a strap on or dildo will be required from now on ??

 

I only answer this post because he is not allowed to post, so I will tell you I have been denying him for longer periods of time. I feel like he is so much more sensitive to the touch than he has ever been. I use a date method to set his day of release and have added the month and day together to determine the weeks he will locked up without cumming. His longest was 14 weeks and now we are on 23 weeks. At any time I can multiply instead to increase his time without cumming instead of adding.

As his keyholder, I was disappointed when he came last time since he lost his sensitivity. I would recommend that all locked men go as long as possible since it makes it much more fun for the keyholder to tease them the longer the go, and I recommend everyone should go as long as they can.

 

I know this is not going to be a popular point to make in these circles but you should google "ejaculation frequency and prostate cancer". There are a number of studies that suggest low ejaculation frequency is a risk factor for prostate cancer and by a not inconsiderable factor.

Of course, when it comes to risk we all make our own decisions but its always good to do it from a position of knowing the odds.

 

I allow my slutty bitch husband to orgasm
BUT the way I want and how I want !!!
Mostly it will have to be in a very feminine situation for her,,
making her orgasm like a woman and all ways feeding her her cum to her..
Keeping her submissive and feminine has helped me to control her mentally and physically and emotionally..
It took lots of forced fem training but now what a big difference I only wish I had started this year's ago

Mistress.L

 

That is awful strict Ms. chat

 

I really don't think it is cruel, as he gets more sensitive I tend to play with him more. He gets a lot of ruined orgasms because I play too long a lot of the time.

 

I agree with the irritability occurring after an orgasm. It takes him about 2 weeks to lose his irritability. Then he seems to be in a funk for a couple of weeks. He just now is getting the sensitivity back, but he is not nearly as sensitive as he used to be before the orgasm.

 

But who chooses how long one can go?

 

He gets to choose if the time set is to long or not long enough. When he had is orgasm on 8/6 I told him he would go 14 weeks without an orgasm. There was much discussion, and I really think he thought I was kidding. During this period, we discussed his lock up and release on 11/12. I told him I would multiply the month and day, he could ask to be released on another more advantageous date if he liked. Instead, we settled on adding the date. This means he is locked till 4/22.

Keeping that in mind, he does get out of the cage, edged, ruined, and I may leave him unlocked all weekend with orders not to touch himself.

I am enjoying seeing how long he can go without cumming. I relate his sensitivity to begin like my clitoral area and think it is great he has that much sensitivity.

 

Very nice

 

thank you - I am a numbers girl - love to explore the different ways to extend time. Although he is set for 23 weeks, the plan is to see how he handles it. If an early release is needed I could subtract 4 from 22 and release early, but it will still be longer than 14 weeks. It will add depend on how he handles it. Remember we have been together for a long time 34 years, and so I would never do anything to cause him any pain or long term issues. In fact, with chastity, he is actually able to stay harder longer than prior to our chastity adventure started.

 

Not sure about numbers lol think females and males count differently . But interesting

 

LOL - you are right - my numbers were screwed up - but you get the idea - I can do whatever I want.

 

Wasn't correcting Ms. Chat. was saying men would rather count orgasms than days till one

 

If that were true, then this site wouldn't exist. I think all men should experience a long term lock up or orgasm denial and they will find they will find they are so much more sensitive, horny, and the pleasure they receive is enormous. We never thought of going 14 weeks let alone 23 weeks. Now we are on that trip and loving the experience. I have had one weekend when he was unlocked, I would have him drop his pants and suck him randomly during the entire weekend. This happened as many times a day as I wanted. He never was allowed to come, and I did not edge him during this time. It simply was to increase his pleasure by touching him. Loved it and so did he.

 

Very nice and considerate Ms.Chat

 

Mistress say that men says that just so they can has a spurty.

 

I'm not sure which survey you have been looking at - the summary of the recent Harvard survey says:-
"The scientists found that men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 33% lower risk of prostate cancer compared with men who reported four to seven ejaculations a month throughout their lifetimes."

That is 0.7 per day and the 33% lower risk is massive - a far greater effect than can, for example, be claimed for 'wonder' drugs like Statins. As for the reducing effect with advancing years its very simple - a high proportion of men over 70 already have prostate cancer albeit sub-clinically and like most cancers they are extant long before they become clinical so what you do in later life is inevitably less of a factor. Also, re the celibate priests, they also tend to eat fish 1 day per week which is likely to feature in their life expectancy.

As I said, you pays your money and take your choice - but it's good to study the form books.

 

And she isn't a beneficiary of your life insurance? Your in the clear then

 

i am milked evry 4 weeks.

 

Well that is certainly at the extreme 'low frequency' end of the data they have collected. As has been said, it depends on how old you are etc. I'm not suggesting you stop - I have done a few dangerous, sometimes very dangerous, things in my life which were much further up the risk scale than chastity and have narrowly avoided getting killed on five occasions that readily spring to mind and I certainly now count myself as risk averse. What I always did (and still do) is, having got the best info possible ask myself "is what I'm getting out of this worth the risk?" and sometimes the answer is yes - in which case I do it.