Hi everybody, So I'm facing a quite annoying problem : it's really hard for me to put on my chastity cage. When it's time for me to wear it, it takes me a while before having my cage properly put. First of all, I get too excited and my erection obviously doesn't make it easy. The easiest task is putting on the ring, but when it's done I'm so hard I have to wait a long time before getting soft again. Then the second problem occurs, I have a quite long foreskin, so when I put the cage in itself, my foreskin is stuck to the "walls" because of me getting imediatly hard. Finally when I get soft again in the cage the head of my penis ends up to be naked and the remaining amount of skin is stuck between the cage and the ring. I don't know if my explanation was clear, I can provide pics if really necessary. Anyway the main problem is that it takes me up to 30 minutes to get my cage properly put. I have already tried a few solutions to stop me from getting hard, like using cold, but that doesn't work.. Hoping you will give me your best advices !
Mistress uses a bag of frozen peas on my package and then, after a couple of minutes, wastes no time in getting everything secured in place. Before she started doing this, just having her touching my balls and penis caused me to become so aroused that putting it on was a long process, as you have. When I had problems sticking to the wall of the CB6000, she squirted a little liquid hand sanitizer in there and it slipped right in! Now, its routine and takes only a couple of minutes.
With a foreskin, it is a challenge. First do the stocking method. You can google that or search it here. Bring the cage close to the ring, and pull back the extra skin that you pulled forward with the stocking method, till it feels comfortable. Then close the cage and just hang the lock in it. It will take some more tugging to get it right. Then lock it once everything feels kosher. PM me if I can help any other way. Us uncut Chastity brothers got to stick together, but I may not be one for much longer!
A large bucket of very cold water usually does wonders for overexcited male subbies. Foreskin can cause problems.
I forgot to mention that method works well for me even if I have a semi chub. A raging hardon my be more difficult. I think about complex math problems.
people mentioned the stocking method. As for calming down I use the palm method......Open your palm and slap your bare thy HARD a few times as this seems to stop the brain sending the GET HARD signals for me but for those into pain this might make it worse lol.
Those 30 minutes are also exciting, isn't it? Initially I also had this problem, but I enjoyed calming down my dick!
It's such an easy fix to the problem. Use my mistresses method. She got sick of the finding the key, taking it off and then trying to get it back on. Solution, she doesn't allow it off anymore. If she decides I am going to get a release it is with the hitachi in the cage and ruined. Problem solved.
Thanks for your advices @notbeinfringed85 I didn't know about this method and it sounds like a good one. I will definitely be testing it next time I'm released from chastity. Unfortunately it seems like there is no good method for stopping me from having an erection. Applying frozen bags and slapping my penis and balls get me even harder... I guess I'll learn calming down my erections with time. Obviously the ultimate goal for me is that one day I'll be able to control myself so that my gilfriend could lock me herself. Today it is still imposible, it takes me a long time so imagine how hard I would be if she does it... Anyway thank you for your quick reactions ! @sissynails1 your solution is maybe the best !
Yes, when your Mistress is the one applying the cage, there is a certain amount of manipulation of the equipment involved and therein lies the problem for me. I always get aroused by that. Who wouldn't? Left to myself to lock up, I have a much easier time, but Mistress insists that her doing it is more symbolic of her control over me, so thus the frozen veggies. Now, I know to go to the freezer and get the bag when its time for her to lock me up!
Aaaand, cue magical erection eliminating trick: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/co...eddit_how_do_you_start_to_get_aroused/c4bxbm1 To quote, "You don't have to wait it out. A man can get rid of an erection by flexing a large muscle for about 30 seconds or more, like both thighs. If you're sitting, rest your feet on your toes and push off the ground as if you're just about to stand up." Works every time.
How about what they do at the hospital if you take Viagra and "have an erection for more than 4 hours"........ Ice water enema!
What I've done and what has been successful for me, is to try to move any sexuality out of the situation. The best way to do this, is to remove and replace the cage, over and over. It can seem tedious, but you're teaching your body to understand the move you're doing is not intending to be sexual. Practice also makes perfect, and you can reduce your time to lock back up considerably. Another option is to apply the ring part of the cage, and get the body used to it, then apply the cage portion. In terms of foreskin, the stocking method is the best I've found. Stockings that I've used are very cheap and can be found in large drug stores (look for the ones inside cheap plastic containers, typically used inside quarter machines to hold candy or a toy for a child). Cutting off the top of the stocking is best, as that extra fabric provides no benefit for this. For any foreskin sticking outside of the cage, use a q-tip to push it back, and possibly a tissue or a square of toilet paper to hold it back if needed.
I have the same problem. After removing the lock, almost everything becomes sexual, such as cleaning the floor, doing dishes, not to mention cleaning my genital areas. The excitement seems never goes away. And I have to be physically and mentally super careful not to accidently cum because my whole body is too sensitive. I don't get to ejaculate most of the time so I guess that is the reason