Ladies and key holders! I want to let you all know my wife and KH went into the hospital for emergency open heart surgery. Thank God she made it!!! My question is, do any of you have a back up plan? Last will? This was really the last thing on my mind at the time, but after everything was ok. I thought what happens now? If she didn't pull thru. I couldn't ever imagine my life without my wife. Not just because she has the keys! But also because we have grown together so much. So wives, husbands, keyholders. If something happened to you that was unexpected how would u handle it?
I think the R in FLR overrides all of this. I should imagine bereavement plays out as with any functioning couple.
TTTWD would be irrelevant really as would all other forms od sexual play lifestyle or fetish. The issue would be the common place one that is faced by many everyday. How do you deal with breavement? and for that you go under or you go on. If you go on eventually it becomes bearable and then just something that was and is no more. The pain might diminish and or the frequency with which it occurrs, but really it is a vey individual thing. and so really there is no telling others how.
I hope that both I and my Goddess live a long time. But I also hope that when the time comes, we fit in with averages and I go first. I could not imagine life without her, either as my KH but more importantly as my soul mate. I'm really happy that your wife is okay.
Maybe I didn't make it clear to start with? I'm saying what if something unexpected happened to ur KH and you don't have anyway out of the locked device your currently in? Is there a "back up plan" for that? A letter you open in case of emergency, a friend that knows where the keys are hidden? That's what I'm wondering...
To answer the question directly: No plan. But the device for me is plastic, and could be somewhat easily destroyed with a pair of side cutters I imagine. Just snipping the end of the plastic pin should be enough. But the question makes me think more about the topic. Would staying locked in a chastity device be a worthy symbol of an undying love for your spouse? Suppose you put on a wedding ring when married....and a chastity tube when you become a widower.
OK this is getting a bit morbid. You can get out of just about any device in an emergency. As for the rest, I don't want to go there!
Our backup plan is simple . I have a emergency key on my key chain. To this day I have never used it. Besides if I did use it and she found out I did . Then it would become a trust issue. That is not good for any marriage .
If you can't figure out how to get it off in an emergency I suggest you don't go near it in the first place ... either that or practise devotional chastity without ever having the need to wear a device of any kind. It requires a certain amount of self- discipline but if you persevere (with some trial and error) you'll find that any feelings of self doubt are gradually replaced by strong feelings of devotion to the Goddess you are hoping to please, which in turn gives you the strength of mind, body and spirit to achieve the standard you have set for yourself.
I think you gave too much detail for a simple question. If something happened to my wife, I would be completely despondent and ... I actually have no words... I saw your post and my stomach turned associating death with ... My submission is to my wife. I do this for her. Because she likes me this way. We have fun together. To your most basic question: Tape a key to money with clear package tape. I have done this to a dollar bill. Even the k-safe, my wife realized that in an emergency I could just crack open the plastic. She felt comfortable putting even the emergency key in there. At some point we will keep a key in our safe deposit box. But you were talking about wills.
1) If you're wearing a CB6000, as in your profile pic, you can break it off with a pair of pliers. 2) If you're in any other kind of plastic device, £20 and a trip to B&Q will get you the tools to remove it. 3) If your'e in one of those inexpensive steel devices that are all over Ebay/AliExpress/DH Gate, etc., a cheap Dremel tool will take care of most of your problems. 3a) Similar with most inexpensive full belts. 4) Mature Metal, etc., devices that use padlocks? Cut the lock, or use the 2 wrench maneuver (qv). 5) Seriously?
All seriousness aside, the idea of someone remaining locked permanently in a CB6K because their KH passes away and they can't figure out how to escape is actually somewhat funny. As @Tom Allen and others will attest, it's hard enough to keep the @#$% things from breaking under normal usage.
A similar topic was discussed several months ago. In general it’s always a good idea to be familiar with all of the goings on. Some FLR’s the woman controls all of the finances including paying bills. Can you pick that up in a moments notice? An emergency key should be rather accessible. Just set it so use would be evident right away (security tag or other means). Do as much if not all of your planning while you are healthy. It makes the whole process a lot easier. Plus it’s more likely you won’t overlook important things. Trust me, I know.
Why you would be without access to an emergency key is quite beyond me ...its very simple to make use of said key self evident. Sealed envelopes, taped to something with her signature on, plastic boxes that need to be broken for access....the list goes on. If without access to a key you can't figure out how to get your device off in some extreme situation then in all honesty in the case of bereavement you probably should not be allowed to live without the supervision of a responsible adult. As Tom Allen almost said, and certainly implies, you do not need rocket science. For other issues that may arise the best advice in regard to this I've seen on this thread is probably Oscartheturtle's.
Yes, ask a friend who is good in DIY to cut it, I just imagine him laughing at your problem and the embarassment you have. I got a dremel but not sure I wil use it near my penis with some small metalic cages, a lot too risky