I seem to be getting a lot of leakage more so during this particular bout of chastity. This seems to have coincided with an end to an edging and CBT. I don't wear panties just regular male underwear; but I need to wear something to soak up the leakage. I suggested to my Wife that i need to use some kind of pad; but she just laughed and asked me if I meant incontinence underwear. I replied some kind of pad such as a sanitry towel. My wife said something like don't be ridiculous. I tried to show her the inside of the front of my underwear and she said that's disgusting, don't show me that again. I think tomorrow I'm going to take a chance and by a pack of cheap panty liners and show them to her and tell her that I need to wear them. If my Wife tells me not to wear them I won't. I just hope she will. Otherwise, does anyone have any other ideas?
I wear Ladies Panty liners they work great for me! You can get Men’s Tener’s pant liners, they sort of work but I find the ladies ones are in a better position if you have a cage that points downwards!
You can always put a condom over the cage but you will be taking it off every time you go pee. I usually wear a pad to catch any drips but I wear a ringless tube tucked back in my panties. Pee drips are gross and more of a problem if you wake at night to pee with an attempted erection. In a pinch, just use a wad of toilet paper at the end of your cage.
I would say some of this can be TMI. Showing your wife the crusty marks and slime trails in your undies would qualify. Not every issue we deal with is shareable. We deal with it ourselves, the results matter, how we get there is usually private. I don’t mention needing to apply Vaseline gel every day, the spray jet in the shower to keep it clean, the abrasions that don’t qualify for device removal, etc. Those issues are my burden and if I felt liners would make things more pleasant than that’s what you do. So I would quit with the over sharing, and take care of business. I’m not saying to hide anything, but going to the bathroom and removing it before going to bed, you will both be happy.
If she is uncomfortable with you using a feminine pad, just use an incontinence one for men. Both should work, that way you don't have to hide them.
Do what you need to do and don't tell her. If she eventually finds out and chastises you, tell her that she can't force abstinence upon you while also denying you the ability to take steps to mitigate the side effects of said forced abstinence.
I would suggest using Tena for Men as they are a product specifically designed for use by man. By using them you are steering away from using a feminine product which could be what your wife dislikes.
You can also get male underwater designed for light incontinence. Similar to increasingly popular period panties for ladies.
I tried asking my wife if I could use a tissue; and she said no way. She then said that we'd better have sex. I won't be going back into chastity if I can avoid it. I will have to see how things turn out. Thanks for your replies