sex addiction and masterbation

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    i know there was a members journal i was reading who also suffered from this and someone stepped up to help him. i know my slave will not seek professional help yet for this its a deep dark secret he has hid all his life.we have only been together a short time. communication is slowly developing and im sure that will be the key to getting through this. i have already forbid him to masterbate and watch porn and have him caged when he is not with me. anyone with experience advice or know someone on here that can help pls reach out thanks
     
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    I sure hope there is a lot of feedback on this question. I suspect there is more sex addiction with our members than we realize. I count myself as one.
     
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    porn is very addictive for men, mostly because men are visually stimulated. So control the porn input and the desire to masturbate will often lower. yourbrainonporn.com is a good site that has lots of info on curbing the addiction.
     
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    I masturbated daily before chastity, even being on high doses of female hormones. I think it just becomes a habit over the years and chastity helps deprogram that habit. After spending a month in chastity, I was past the "habit" of doing it.
     
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    This is definitely the disease of the internet generations.
     
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    I put my BITCH in chastity for this reason and it put a stop to it instantly!!!
     
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    Regarding this, chastity is so frustrating for me. There are times I would do anything to be let out, to be able to stretch fully and touch myself...
    And my gf just laughs...
     
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    I'm sure this will be a major reason for the increase of male chastity.
     
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    Masturbation is the reason I am in chastity.
    I have been a chronic masturbator for years and was becoming (or was) addicted to porn. I was jerking off at least 2-3 times every day, sometimes 4-5. My masturbation habit started to interfere with my life. It is possible I was/am a sex addict but have not discussed this with a professional.
    I bought a Jailbird chastity cage from Mature Metal with the punishment pins. Once I had it adjusted a couple of times (this took a couple of months) I wrote a letter to my wife explaining my habit to her and asked her for help. My wife agreed and locked me up in chastity. She has the key. I do have the spare key (for emergencies) in a sealed/tamper proof envelope with her initials on it. So I CAN NOT use the key without her knowing it. My spare key is kept in her drawer with her panties and bras so she sees it daily!
    Chastity has definitely put an end to my masturbation habit. I am in chastity 24/7 and actually enjoy it.
    Don't get me wrong, I still sometimes have the urge to jack off or have the urge to bend the wife over or spread her legs and pound her like a jack hammer (with her permission of course). I think these are primal instincts in men and they may never go away as we are animals and have the need to breed. But there is nothing I can do since I am locked! Being locked has definitely calmed me down and has made me a better husband by paying more attention to my wife and her needs.
     
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