How can you stop or control the constant begging for release?

I have done more than my share of pleading to be released, to date, this has been a waste of my time and has only heightened my Domme's resolve to keep me locked.
We have a contract that says I am to be locked for 4 week spells, however, the 4 week spell is to be doubled if my Ms thinks I have misbehaved, i.e plead too much for relief when locked.

 

I do not plead anymore my QUEEN will give me release if she so desires. I am to the point where I get more pleasure out of watching her orgasm. When she allows my little willy to squirt is of no concern to me any longer. I am only her to give her pleasure and serve her. I get great pleasure in that having a little thing squirt is no longer important or pleasurable for that matter.
I think I have turned the corner to sissy maid and it feels very good. The tiny little willy is always locked up and of no concern to this sissy
Jessica

 

Is it my imaginenation or do some does like the begging? I'm not sure MissMira would be without me begging, I think she truly enjoys knowing the impact Her power has on me.

 

The question is not relevant to my sissymaid as she knows there will be no release.

 

I can only talk about my own experiences but for those I've been in chastity for, begging has had its place. That said, it was only the right sort of begging that was wanted and tolerated.

I suppose you could call it play begging, providing them with the necessary rush of hearing what their control was doing to me and revelling in that knowledge. However, what they would never tolerate was whining or out of context begging. In other words, if they didn't want to hear it, then there would be dire consequences if I tried begging. Also, whilst they may have encouraged begging as part of a play situation, if they became bored of it and told me to stop, then it would have to stop immediately.

I would say that teaching a male that whining and bratting have no effect is one of the first lessons that serious keyholders teach.

 

I used to be a "begger", begging all the time for release, she soon curbed me by giving me severe beatings on the ass with her riding crop every time i asked, i no longer ask for sex, as i dont want the beatings, so it worked for her, i just get it when she wants now.

 

Well maybe its worth trying to give him a release date (a week) and each time hi begs then ad a day. But also talk with him, find out why his begging? Dos hi relly want this to work, and tell him what it does to you when hi begs. Remember that when his lock't his mind constant thinking of sex. Play with him and make him feel the happyness of pleasing you. A god spanking while you remember him its all about you, and yours orgasm can also be helpfull.

 

Mistress has had me locked for 158 days now with no release. Plenty of "Tease and Denial" and she does unlock me for Training occasionally but only to be locked right back up. We were on vacation last week for 7 days and she did unlock me several times and did allow me to go inside her once ..... she ordered me to fuck her hard and pound her pussy but I had better not unload. She made it quite difficult and did edge me many times during the week. If I leaked any at all I was made to clean it off and after Mistress smacked her balls for the infraction she immediately locked her cock back away and then ordered slave to clean her pussy.

If I beg to have Mistress let me unload while she is Training I'm disciplined and then days are added to the time for any chance. We are leaving on a trip for a week in a few hours and she has already made it quite clear that I will not be allowed to unload her full balls because of my behavior and begging last week. She said to plan for plenty of edging and tease and denial and I had better not leak because there will be more severe discipline until slave learns to not mess.

 

I guess if I got to the point where I was begging to come I would thing that either the guarntee that more time would added for doing so would soon shut me up. The response that would work best is the simple one if you want me to let you come now then you can and after you can throw your CB away because we'll never need it again. That would do it.

My problem is not me begging but trying to get my new partner to deny me longer. At best she only goes 2 weeks at a time. I really do want to know how long is too long for me whilst in a realtionship. I imagine the point where you start having accidents would be it. Which would of course raise a new problem .. how do you prevent accidents?

Well nobody ever said playing this game would be easy. Worth the effort though.

 

well on saturday night, i begged my miss c to let me cumm. she reached nicley into my shorts than grabbed /squished my balls so hard i almost cryed. she dose not do that every time. it was very efficative. as horney as i was i did not evan hint at it again

 

You simply need a deterrent. Something that will make your sub too nervous or worried to bother asking any more.

 

Terrorism.. works every time....

 

The Threat of losing his balls would work Ms LOL

 

Spot on.

 

I've used different methods with different subs; asking for a release for any reason other than medical emergency means:-

XXX number of cane strokes

XX time gagged + bread and water rations

XX weeks added to denial period

My ultimate sanction is that the device is removed and never put on again. If a sub is asking for and gets a release what is the point of them being allowed the privilege of a key holder!

 

eeeek, im glad i dont asks

 

Jemima's Mistress uses an interesting deterrent. Why don't you tell us about it Jemima?

 

is it jemimas cage sissy must go in? do tell

 

Come on Jemima..you can tell us...we wont tell.. ;-)

 

If Jemima does tell, then we won't have to!

 

please Mistress, i has to ask Mistress first. curtsy.

 

See how well trained Jemima is?

 

As strange as that may sound to someone unfamiliar with chastity, that is very much the ultimate deterrent and very effective against someone emotionally bound by their keyholder to being in chastity.

 

Mistress says i has to apoligise to Mistress Amanda for keeping secrets. If im naughty and Mistress cant be bothered to paddle me, then i has to go to my dogcage and stop there till im let out.